Flames Clinch Western Conference!

Back in October, I wrote a post about the things I was excited for this season.

There was lots to be excited about but I doubt many Flames fans predicted the season the Calgary Flames would end up having.  I was optimistic that they’d be in the playoff hunt and hoped they’d be in the middle of the pack instead of ending the season at or near the final playoff spot which is where they usually end up (out of playoff contention more than in unfortunately.)

But by December, it was clear that something special was happening and even with the occasional scoring slump or goaltender controversy, the Flames continued to play amazing hockey and Sunday night, clinched the Western Conference top spot over fourteen other teams!

It makes me think about the reasons we follow sports:

Studies have shown that for fans, being identified with a favorite team is more important than being identified with their work and social groups, and is as or more important to them as being identified with their religion. Sociologists have hypothesized that sports subcultures work as “totems,” serving as points of connection for communities and an outlet for ritual and religion in a time when actual religiosity continues to decline. Support for a certain team or club can serve as a point of identity and belonging, either crossing lines of age, race and background or reinforcing them.

* Watching some of the best athletes in the world perform at a level they’ve prepared their whole life for
* If you played yourself, you’ll have an even greater appreciation for the skill level that elite athletes have.
* The competition, strategy and outright battles between two teams
* The amazing highlights and embarrassing lowlights
* The feeling of belonging to something larger than yourself (I got a lot of compliments by simply wearing a Flames’ shirt to the Regina Home Show last week)
* The emotional engagement of watching the ebb and flow of a game and a season.
* …and this:

Anyhow, the regular season is almost over and the *real* season is about to begin.  Can the Flames continue their amazing season with a deep playoff run?  I hope so!

Saturday Snap – Pretty Much The Definition of Spring in Saskatchewan

Still having to scrape half your windshield in the morning! 😉

Friday Fun Link – Early Contender for Pace’s Next Birthday Party?

This is one of those times where you convince your child that they really want something that secretly, you as the dad really want!

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – How Did I Get Here? – #6 – Comedy

 

After another week away from this series (honestly, I forgot I was doing this “How I Became Me” series last week after working a 1-9pm shift and, as I often do, whipping off a zero-effort post to keep my daily post streak alive instead of doing something a bit more in-depth and time-consuming.)

Anyhow, we’ve covered all manner of things that have had a strong influence on who I am in the past few entries (parents, friends, books, travel, sociability) so let’s add another pick that’s a bit off-the-board of what you might expect on a list like this – comedy.

I’ve always enjoyed things that make me laugh from reading MAD magazine as a kid to watching Saturday Night Live religiously as a teenager (the rule of SNL is your favourite era is the one you were a teenager in) to David Letterman as well as any popular 1980s stand-up comic from Eddie Murphy to Robin Williams to Dennis Leary on through discovering comics that maybe didn’t have as much commercial success but were even more influential – George Carlin is probably my favourite of all-time (so much so that when my parents took me to Vegas for my 21st birthday, I asked to go see him and beyond how funny he was, it’s also hilarious to think back on how awkward it was to sit at a two-drink minimum table in Vegas with my parents and my younger sister while a comedian the rest of the family barely knew did his “101 Names for Dicks” routine!).

Part of the reason I think I enjoy comedy so much is that’s because comedy is comprised of things that also make you think – fun word play, clever puns, twist endings.  (Really, at its essence, all comedy is a setup followed by an unexpected twist.)

I’ve learned so much from being a fan of comedy – about language and how to communicate ideas, about politics and pop culture, about sex and relationships, about religion and atheism, about human foibles and frailties, about hypocrisy and how ridiculous so much of how we live and the world we live in truly is, about the nature of offense and the importance of identifying current issues, addressing taboos and pushing society forward – whether that’s Lenny Bruce or Hannah Gadsby.

Honestly, when I think about it, comedy might not be the biggest influence in my life but it might be the single most underrated influence on my worldview.

I regularly think of the famous George Carlin quote – “Inside every cynical person, there’s a disappointed idealist”.  I don’t consider myself cynical per se but I do think there’s much in our world that leaves one disappointed when it’s clear how easily things could be much better – if we treated others better, if we had a more equal society, if we recognized our communal problems and addressed them.  Who else but a comedian can do such a good job of summing up universal truths so compactly yet so eloquently?  Maybe a songwriter?  Some authors?  Beyond that?  Not many.

Anyhow, I’ll leave you with another of my favourites which happens to be the first comedy cassette I ever owned, a classic that came out when I was thirteen years old.  Crazy to think that was 30+ years ago and Robin Williams was only 35 years old.  Also heartbreaking to listen to the final five minutes where he does a bit about his three-year old son knowing that Williams would end up taking his own life eventually.

Er, that’s not a very funny note to end on but maybe that sort of makes my point about why I’ve always found comedy so powerful.  At its worst, even the most amateur open-mic comic will give you a laugh (though maybe not for the reason they intend.)  But at its best, it will not only make you laugh but make you think, make you feel, maybe even make you cry.

Comparing The Cuts: Cornwall Alternative School and Saskatchewan’s Public Libraries #skpoli

I was having some bad flashbacks over the past few days after the Sask Party released their budget last week that included an unexpected, unnecessarily cruel cut.

But instead of cutting funding to public libraries and threatening to destroy a 100-year old, world-leading system like they did two years ago, the Sask Party targeted Cornwall Alternative School, a school-of-last-resort with a nearly 50-year history of helping kids who were unable to succeed in regular high schools for one reason or another.

Luckily, it didn’t take a month of province-wide advocacy to reverse the cuts as this time the Sask Party backtracked within a week.

It’s not a perfect parallel but it’s instructive to look at some of the similarities in these two cuts that ended up being reversed due to public outcry.

* Both cuts were relatively minor, basically a rounding error in the grand scheme of a fifteen billion dollar provincial budget. Libraries were cut by $5 million dollars, Cornwall School was cut by just under $1 million.  But, at the same time, had they not been reversed, the cuts would’ve killed the things they funded, not just forced them to “tighten up their belt”.

* The cuts to public libraries were unexpected because the Sask Party was the one who had provided funding only a few years earlier to create a province-wide system; Cornwall Alternative School’s cuts were unexpected because they had an agreement with the province for funding through 2020.

* Even some activists who were ostensibly on the side of libraries groused that the only reason that libraries were saved is because middle class people showed up to protest while other services that were arguably of more benefit to the less fortunate among us – ranging from STC to paying funeral expenses for social services clients – either remained axed or only got a small portion of their funding restored.

This is, of course, bullshit.

It may have been mostly middle class people who showed up for the “Drop Everything and Read” rallies that helped scare convince the Sask Party to restore library funding, but, like Cornwall School, public libraries probably do more than *any other public institution* to provide a welcoming, accepting, trusting environment for people who have nowhere else to go.  Those troubled kids who might tell a principal to “Go fuck himself” in a regular school setting could find a home at Cornwall Alternative School and that same kid who felt hassled, judged and mistreated by retail outlets, their family and even by social services, could find a level of comfort in a public library they might not find in any other part of their life.

* There’s a strange parallel in how the Sask Party seems to keep making (then reversing) these decisions without any consultation, warning or apparently looking at any sort of data which, no matter your political stripes, should give you pause.

* There’s also a parallel that they seem to target important services that disproportionately are used by people on the lower-end of the socioeconomic scale.

* To be fair, I suspect people involved in libraries and in the Cornwall Alternative School both know intuitively how important their work is but, I also suspect for that reason, we aren’t always the best political advocates, especially with a government that doesn’t see the world through the same lens.

* Part of that different view is that the value of the work the public libraries and places like Cornwall Alternative School can’t be easily measured in terms of quarterly reports or annual budgets or even four-year election cycles.  Those positive impacts happen over lifetimes but, with that said, there are clear long-term economic impacts in terms of reducing crime, social services costs, welfare benefits and so on *if* you are willing to take the long view.

* This recurring pattern of attacking services that help people in our society who struggle the most and are least able to defend themselves makes me wonder how many people who sit in our Legislature (on both sides of the aisle) regularly interact with anyone who in any way, shape or form, would be someone who might even need a place like Cornwall Alternative School?

And though I think of the NDP as much less likely to attack the less-well-off among us, I think about this question in regards to their MLA’s too.  Now, I don’t know every MLAs’ bio inside and out but here are some names that jump to mind.  NDP Leader Ryan Meili lived and worked as a doctor in Saskatoon’s inner-city so he’s the first name that jumps to mind.  Heck, he wrote a book about how society needs to change its focus to proactively addressing the root causes of social issues instead of reactively paying for them.

Who else?  On the NDP side, I think they have a handful of former social workers, a teacher who worked with inner-city students (not to mention that NDP MLAs tend to be more likely to represent inner-city urban neighbourhoods or from northern communities where they’re more likely to interact with people who are on the lower-end of the socioeconomic ladder.)

On the other side of the aisle, someone like current Social Services Minister, Paul Merriman who was Executive Director of the Saskatoon Food Bank must’ve left his office to interact with the people using the food bank occasionally, right?

Heck, an article I dug up from 2009 has a quote from then-ED of the Saskatoon Food Bank, Paul Merriman, where he says:

The students say their sample size of 50 households per neighbourhood is too small to be considered accurate but Merriman says the group’s findings [that lower income people donated more to the Food Bank than more affluent people during a charity drive] aren’t that startling.

He says lower- and middle-class neighbourhoods have a long tradition of giving to the food bank.

“They understand the value of it,” he said. “If they were ever on the food bank or some kind of assistance and they got off it, the first thing they want to do is give back.”

In comparison, he says people in upper-class neighbourhoods or communities in rural areas are less likely to be familiar with the effects of hunger and urban poverty.

“It’s not in their face, so they don’t feel they have to give as much,” Merriman said.

Who else on the Sask Party side?  Again, I don’t know their bios very well but Mark Docherty jumps to mind having worked at the Paul Dojack Youth Centre, Thunderbird Lodge among various other similar human service organizations.  Scanning through their caucus bios quickly, Christine Tell was a psychiatric nurse then a police officer and I suspect that brought her into regular contact with less fortunate people. Don Morgan was chair of the Legal Aid Commission. Joe Hargraves was a corrections officer.  Fred Bradshaw was on the founding board of the Northeast Early Childhood Intervention program.  Muhammad Fiaz volunteers with an organization called Humanity First.  Nadine Wilson was a social worker and corrections officer. Tina Beaudry-Mellor served on various boards including Regina Transition House and the United Way.  Todd Goudy is a Baptist pastor.

* So yeah, that was painful to wade through all the Sask Party MLA bios (partly because there’s so many of them – the 2020 election can’t come soon enough!) but I’m actually a bit surprised at how many have had jobs and volunteer roles where one would assume they came into contact with people who come from less fortunate circumstances.  I mean, that doesn’t tell you the whole story – just because you serve on the board of the Regina Transition House, it doesn’t mean you’re interacting with their clients regularly (if at all.)  Same with jobs like police officer or corrections officer – there are two kinds of people who fill these types of roles and some are good and some aren’t so good.

* I guess that leads to my final thought – out of all the MLAs we have – most of whom are doctors or lawyers or farmers or businesspeople (yes, I know those last two overlap!) or other middle-class and upper-middle class professions, it’d be interesting to know who came from the most hardscrabble background (but I also know that doesn’t guarantee empathy and understanding.  In fact, I’ll generalize that Sask Party MLAs who rise from lower circumstances probably see that as “pulling themselves up by their bootstraps” and wonder why others don’t do the same, disregarding other wider societal factors that may have helped them succeed – everything from supportive family structures to the general advantages of white privilege to the dash of luck/timing/coincidence that may have given them a leg up that someone else didn’t have.)

Anyhow, to end, I’ll say how fortunate I consider myself to work in a public library where, every single day, I get to know and interact with people from the widest range of citizens – from well-off retirees who happily chat about their latest European vacation to troubled youth who are the exact reason that a place like Cornwall Alternative School is so necessary.

National Purple Day for Epilepsy Awareness

Shea’s cousin’s son was profiled by the Jim Pattison Children’s Hospital for National Epilepsy Awareness Day.

Rylan’s seizures started at the young age of two. They indicated something serious, but at that point nobody knew it would take such a toll on his future development and quality of life. As his mom Jacqui helplessly observed her son’s troublesome moments, she knew that parenthood was going to look different than what she had anticipated.

Meanwhile, I got a visit from one of my favourite patrons today who also suffers seizures among his various other health challenges.

Although I didn’t wear purple myself (I only have a purple dress shirt which isn’t really my style at work!), I do think awareness days are important.  But even more important is treating people who are facing challenges – epilepsy and otherwise – with kindness, compassion and acceptance.

Music Monday – “My heart’s like an open book/For the whole world to read/Sometimes nothing keeps me together/At the seams”

Shea and I watched “The Dirt“, the new Netflix Motley Crue biopic this weekend.

Lots of songs that were a soundtrack to my high school years for sure including this one…

Home Sweet Home” – Motley Crue

The Eleven Month Countdown to Next Year’s Trip?


Just like I did after we got home last year, I immediately began thinking about and researching where we might like to go on a tropical vacation next winter.

Here’s my shortlist of destinations (but not hotels – though I’ve started that list too!) so far:

1. Isla Mujeres 

– both times we’ve gone there on day trips from Cancun, Isla Mujeres has been the highlight of our entire week.  So why not stay there for the entire week?  Plus Isla Mujeres is fairly touristy but still retains some rustic, rural, authentic charm that you’ll never get in Cancun or Playa del Carmen.  It reminds me of one of our other absolute places on earth – if Cancun is Honolulu, Isla Mujeres is like Kauai (which is perhaps our favourite place we’ve ever been!)

2. Puerto Vallarta
We haven’t been to the Pacific coast since our first all-inclusive and never to Puerto Vallarta which many people we know rave about. In all honesty, going to the Pacific coast is probably a good way to save a bit of money as well since resorts on that side tend to be cheaper than Cancun/Mayan options.

3. Huatulco
A place I rarely heard of until recently but which is now a very popular destination.  Everyone mentions how much hotter it is than other places in Mexico – maybe low 30’s instead of high 20’s on average?

4. Dominican Republic 
We’ve only been once but it was one of our best trips/resorts ever so would be good to go back. We did the main area of Punta Cana but La Romana sounds interesting.

5. Cuba
Pretty much the same reason as the Dominican – we’ve only been twice but have enjoyed it both times (Shea says Iberostar Varadero was one of her top resorts of all-time).  Trade-off is resorts in Cuba that tend to be just a bit “less” of everything due to lack of supplies and supply lines – food not quite as good, pools that may turn green if the resort runs out of chlorine, minimal wifi, stuff like that.

6.Mayan Riviera 
We’ve really shied away from options in the Mayan with reports of horrible seaweed but there are lots of great resorts with all kinds of unique offerings that might convince us to return.

7. Playa Mujeres 
I think this is also another relatively new area north of Cancun with only a few resorts so far.  But might be worth a try for something new/different.

8.  Jamaica
One of the few places you can get direct flights to from Regina (along with Mexico, Cuba and Dominican) but the only one of those four we’ve never been to at all.

9. Holbox Island
Another island near Cancun, this one is perhaps even less touristy than Isla Mujeres.

10. Cancun (again)
This is last on my list but given the variety of options, the price points available, proximity to the airport for the hotel zone and the overall decent beaches, I could see us ending up somewhere in Cancun again next year.

Saturday Snap – Puddle Jumpin’

If you get out early enough, you get to break the ice on the puddles!

Friday Fun Link – “Any time you win five Stanley Cups, there’s a certain amount of mess that comes on the tail end of that.”

The only thing that’s made the Flames’ amazing season better is watching the ongoing dumpster fire that is their provincial rivals, the Edmonton Oilers, not just this year but over the past ten years.

The smugness and arrogance in this clip from Oilers’ Old Boys Club management is an oldie but a goldie (oh, and by the way, the Oilers’ last Stanley Cup was in 1990 and they’re about to miss the playoffs again this year having missed every season but one since 2006 (which tied a futility record).  In 2006, they did make it to the Finals in a Cinderella run but end up losing in the Stanley Cup finals, all while having more #1 overall draft picks and high draft picks over a short period of time than any team in history.)