It’s a challenge to do an eulogy for imperfect people but I’ve always thought it strange how most eulogies serve to lionize the deceased in the best light possible and rarely to never acknowledge people’s quirks, warts and foibles that that also made them who they are.
I just read the most amazing obituary of a guy I never met.
I went to college with his son, @SamEifling, who gave his father the ultimate goodbye.
Sam wrote about what so many don’t do after a loved one dies — the amazing imperfections of life. pic.twitter.com/r6Cid662Df
— Darren Rovell (@darrenrovell) October 9, 2026