“Just Me and the Ponies (For Christmas This Year)” – Corb Lund
“Just Me and the Ponies (For Christmas This Year)” – Corb Lund
Last year, we gave in and bought a stupid Dollar Store “Elf on a Shelf” rip-off to move around every night for Sasha.
Turned out it was actually kind of fun coming up with scenarios and jokes for the little guy and I might’ve got more enjoyment out of it than she did!
This year, “Rainbow” (Sasha’s name for the elf) had a bit of a challenge since we were in the midst of a move and we weren’t sure if he’d spend time at the old and new houses or just the new house or what as we transitioned from one to the other in early December.
Rainbow ended up spending every night in December exploring the new house and when we’d pop by every day, he’d be in a new spot (completely unrelated, the day before, dad might “forget his keys” or “have to check the lights are out” once everyone was loaded in the van.)
Anyhow, I’m very conscious that childhood magic is fleeting (Sasha’s already questioning Santa but yet seems to fully believe in Rainbow’s ability to move around the house every night and how he loses this ability if a kid touches him) so I’m going to make the most of it!
I was in the habit of watching *Love Actually” every December but last year I didn’t get to it and instead I watched this which has nothing to do with Christmas but, since I watched it right before Christmas, still managed to feel like a Christmas movie if that makes sense?
For the last few years, Shea and I have been occasionally “kicking the tires” on houses that caught our eye. We were looking for something a bit bigger, something a bit newer, something a bit more fully featured than the 1977 starter home we bought fifteen years ago.
When we went to see another house that had caught Shea’s eye (and which is one she later told me had stood out to her a few years ago the last time it sold!) on our way home from camping on September long weekend, who knew that three short months later, I’d be sitting pretty much in the same spot where Shea appears to be pointing in this photo that I took during that viewing! 🙂
Shea and I made the offer on our new house on October 5 and took possession on November 22.
For a variety of reasons, we were in a fortunate position where we didn’t have to make the purchase conditional on the sale of our old house and, in fact, we were fully prepared to float two mortgages for a while if we had to including into the new year as the conventional wisdom is that you shouldn’t list houses for sale in December because people don’t tend to buy houses at that time of year anyhow so your house just ends up sitting on the market longer than if you’d held off until the new year for a new listing.
Our realtor said there were reasons to list it before Christmas and reasons to hold off until the new year but she pointed out that ultimately, if you list before Christmas and don’t get much interest, other realtors will know it’s likely due to the holidays being a slow time and not assume your house is sitting for a long time because there’s something wrong with it.
On the other hand, she pointed out that you never know when your buyer is looking and you don’t want to miss that window. Or leave your house empty for an extended period with all the increased risks of break-ins, water breaks, higher insurance costs, etc. Or, even if you’re in a position and willing to do so, why would you carry two mortgages (and all related expenses for two houses – utilities, insurance, etc.) not to mention that a house might simply be *harder* to sell once it’s completely empty since buyers assume you’re desperate.
Thinking how we’d bought our previous house in December, how I’d moved into an apartment for library school in December, how many people get transferred for work or start school on January 1, how an increasing number of people don’t even celebrate Christmas so they’re less likely to hit “pause” on a home search just because it’s December, etc. made us realise that it’s not like no one is moving in December. In fact, you might even have some big advantages selling around the holidays.
For all those reasons, we decided we could make all the timelines work and we were able to get our house listed before the end of November using professional photos taken while our house was still in-transition rather than completely empty so we didn’t look like, well, people who were desperate to sell and likely carrying two mortgages. 😉
I don’t want to jinx anything but I will mention that we had six showings within three days (!) and at least one potential buyer was *very* interested.
So it remains to be seen what might happen next. But with my fingers crossed, I’ll say that deciding to list our house in late November might turn out to be a great decision after all!
I can’t believe I’ve never posted this song before – one of the most absolutely beautiful, heart-wrenching Christmas songs of all-time.
And so appropriate these days too.
We’re extremely excited for our first Christmas in our new house of course. But it also comes with mixed emotions knowing that a decision we made only two short months ago to make an offer on a new house means that somewhat abruptly, we won’t get to celebrate a final Christmas in the house we’ve called home for fifteen years.
I never got around to it but I had a mini-tradition where I’d position myself in such a way on Christmas morning that I could shoot video of Pace (and eventually Sasha) running down our main hallway to get their first glimpse of the Christmas tree with Santa’s gifts under it.
My idea was to cut the videos from each year in such a way that the kids would morph from young to older as they ran down the hall (and the fact I can describe it better than do it is why I’m an English major and not a Film major!) 😉
Anyhow, take it away King…
“I’ll Be Home For Christmas” – Elvis Presley


There are a zillion different moving guides online with all sorts of tips, tricks and reminders.
But honestly, for our move, I found that using an online To Do manager with different lists for things like “Timeline”, “To Buy”, “To Pack”, “To Fix – Old House”, “To Fix – New House”, “Contact Info”, etc. (but yes, borrowing ideas liberally from those other online sites) was the best tool to keep track of all the various elements of our move.