Music Monday – “Hey little sister/Who’s your superman/Hey little sister/Who’s the one you want?”

I know it’s not 2020 anymore but the most “2020” thing of 2021 (so far) is that it’s a pre-Super Bowl performance by Miley Cyrus and Billy Idol that feels like the first real, tangible proof I’ve seen in nearly a year that we might get back to “normal” once vaccinations are widespread.

Someone who saw this performance said they first cringed when they saw thousands of unmasked people in the audience which is, unfortunately, a very typically American scene.

But then they realised these were all vaccinated healthcare workers which made their fear and unease drop away completely and the scene just felt…normal.

(And who knew when I was rocking out to Billy Idol songs in grade seven in 1986 that seeing him perform in this particular circumstance would bring tears to my eyes in 2021???)

“Nightcrawling/White Wedding” – Miley Cyrus & Billy Idol

Secular Sunday – NOD vs. SOD in Regina (A Different Kind of Religion?)

Looking longingly at a “SOD” fireworks show

Religion takes many forms and one of the strangest is the tribalism that often happens, even within the *same* community.

This CBC article looks at the historic divisions between those who are North of Dewdney (NOD) and those who are in the south part of Regina.

These divisions aren’t unique – every city I’ve lived has had them.

In Calgary, the division was between those in the west and the east parts of the city (was Deerfoot Trail the dividing line there or maybe MacLeod Trail?) and in London, ON, it mattered to some people if you were EOA (East of Adelaide).

And the same strange tribalism radiates outwards – Regina has its NOD vs. SOD dividing line but everyone in Regina is also aware of the city’s rivalry with Saskatoon.  But when the Riders play the Stampeders, all of Saskatchewan unites behind the green and white.  And then, when eastern Canada tries to implement some new government policy, the west including people in both Saskatchewan and Alberta might unite against “those eastern bastards.”  Then, when its the Olympics or whatever, most Canadians unite against all the other countries.

I grew up with a version of it myself – people in Fort Qu’Appelle were our main rivals and things always seemed heightened when we interacted with people from there – whether it was on the sports field or in the bar (I still have a tiny scar on my cheek from a shattered glass during a Katepwa Lake bar confrontation between IH and Fort Qu’Appelle residents at which I was an innocent bystander…honest!)

Anyhow, Shea and I have lived both “SOD” and “NOD” in Regina and honestly don’t notice much difference or have a preference ourselves.

Like the guy quoted in the article who grew up “SOD” (who, in typical Saskatchewan fashion, happens to both be Shea’s cousin-in-law and also mentions the same street – Castle Road – where Shea and I first met and lived together for about four years while attending the nearby University.) we now live “NOD” (ironically, only a few blocks from that same cousin-in-law who moved NOD for family reasons) and part of the reason we do is because when we moved back from Calgary and were house hunting in 2004,  we had a real estate agent who was adamant that Shea and I were “south end people” and he literally wouldn’t even take us to look at houses “NOD” to see what was available!

We ended up buying privately and got an amazing house – built by a cooperative of tradespeople, many of whom still lived in the area (the person we bought from was the bricklayer and the original carpenter still lived next door.)  And it was so much larger and better built than many south-end houses (Regina’s dirty secret is the “south” is the rich/desirable/white collar area but it’s also built on swampy gumbo so most basements in the south end are cracked and need reinforced!)

Anyhow, one of the main things that bugs me about these artificial divisions – as the article says, a lot of it is about class division and reinforcing social standing. But one of the reasons we love the north end is that it feels a lot more diverse than the south – Pace’s best friend at school is from Africa, Sasha’s best friend is from the Middle East.

And ultimately, these divisions may mean more if you grew up here or you grew up in a pre-Internet time where physical distance was more of a barrier.  But Regina is a pretty small city overall.  I can practically see fields north of the city from my living room but can also be at the south end of the city in 15 minutes if the traffic lights cooperate.

Anyhow, I like the approach of the younger kids quoted in the article who also seem to realise these divisions are false and unnecessary.  That’s the best approach if you ask me!

Saturday Snap – How To Simulate a Tropical Holiday in Covid Times

Normally, Saturday Snap is a pic I’ve taken but I came across this on social media and decided to post it…


We’ve been fortunate to do a winter holiday for the past few years so now that we’re into February, it’s starting to hit me that this won’t be happening this year (doesn’t help that we’re in a stretch of -40 weather right now either!)

Anyhow, that made me think of ways you could simulate a tropical vacation without leaving your house:

  1. if you have a jetted tub, put on your bathing suit and pretend you’re floating in the ocean waves.  (Bonus if you can fit in other family members!)
  2. pile your plate high with 3x more tacos than you can possibly eat, all ordered from a local restaurant
  3. buy a bottle of tequila and make some tropical drinks (bonus if you drink a tequila sunrise in the morning with your omelette)
  4. try to convince yourself that the snow outside the window is sand
  5. have typical all-inclusive resort music playing in the background as soon as you wake up until you go to bed at night (for added reality, turn it up a lot louder in the evening when you’re trying to fall asleep).
  6. cook at least one seafood meal (rip up a $50 bill if you choose lobster considering it a “surcharge” even though resorts are otherwise all-inclusive)
  7. put a “Coconut” scented air freshener in your dining room (and a “unidentified humid musty smell” in your bedroom)
  8. instead of beach volleyball, play “living room knees-only sock toss”
  9. Move your beer fridge from your basement to your bedroom and stock it with exactly two beers, two cokes, two sprites and two bottle of water.  Forget to refill it after the first day)
  10. put a 10 hour video of a beach scene in the background of your smart TV.  (Have box of tissues nearby.)

Friday Fun Link – Seven Creative Ways To Organize Your Mobile Apps

My personal system is “most used apps on the first page with roughly themed rows”, “other commonly used apps on the second page” and then everything else sorted into folders on the following pages by category but as a librarian, I feel like I should switch to one of these creative classification systems.

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – Stuck in Snow (January 2010)

We’ve had a lot of snow this year and one big advantage of our new house is having an attached garage so we don’t have to shovel/scrape/dig out like at our old house (which had a detached garage but which we rarely used since it was:
a) full of junk
b) behind the house and any heavy snow made it hard to get out of the driveway
c) Shea and I left at different times so it was hard to coordinate coming and going
d) all of the above.)

Anyhow, Pace was shoveling our new driveway recently and said he actually remembered “helping” me dig out my stuck car, parked in front of our old house, when he was three years old which reminded me of this photo of my car stuck in snow after being parked in the street overnight after a heavy snowfall.

Toxic Positivity

I saw this in the context of someone dealing with cancer but I can think of lots of other situations – workplaces, volunteer organizations, schools, families, life during Covid in general – where everyone is encouraged to act as if everything is good and positive and happy instead of acknowledging that things might be less than great.

It’s not a perfect analogy but it sort of reminds me of an anecdote I remember Shea telling me.

One of her former coworkers said she hated to go downtown with her kids because they might see a homeless person. <gasp>

So instead of having a (yes, possibly tough) conversation with their children about addictions, economics or why there are might even homeless people, this person wanted to shield them from reality that things aren’t always good or positive or happy.

Same mindset, still wrong.

I’m at an age where…

…I find myself downloading apps to test my hearing at midnight, suddenly worried that a lifetime of listening to loud music and going to concerts that left my ears ringing is catching up to me.

(Luckily, at least according to a free iPhone app, I have nothing to worry about…yet.)

 

Music Monday – “‘Cause I’ve been lost on them back roads/And many times, I’ve gone blind/Losing faith in my family/Had drew me out my damn mind”

Shea and I are hooked on “Yellowstone” right now and a big part of that is realising how many songs on the soundtrack are already part of the “Camping Faves” playlist we listen to non-stop every summer (including a few by Ryan Bingham who also stars in the show as a singing cowboy.)

Southside of Heaven” – Ryan Bingham

Saturday Snap – Family Movie Night

Friday Fun Link – C Major Scale Visualized

This is pretty cool (even though the tone sounds like an auto-tuned hockey organ!)