Music Monday – “Every whisper/Of every waking hour I’m/Choosing my confessions”

Recommended by a patron at my branch…

Losing My Religion” – Lacuna Coil

It’s Okay To Have Too Many Books, In Fact, It May Be Beneficial

After a lifetime as a reader, studying English in undergrad, working with book publishers and writers across two provinces, attending book & publishing conferences where advanced reading copies are given out freely, even hitting way too many charity book sales and garage sales in my life, I suspect I own roughly a thousand books.

How many books is that?

Well, the picture above is roughly half the books I own. 😮

Enough books that when we moved, the weight of the book boxes frontloaded in our shipping container almost made it so the driver couldn’t unload it properly (something he said he hadn’t seen in three years of doing that job!)

Marie Kondo gets a lot of attention these days for her KonMari decluttering techniques including her recommendation to “only keep items that you give you joy when you hold them in your hands” with her recommendation that you should own ~30 books at max.

No surprise that I happen to think that’s bullshit. 🙂

There is loads of research saying that being surrounded by books, *even if you don’t read them*, has positive benefits.

One such study found that children who grew up in homes with between 80 and 350 books showed improved literacy, numeracy, and information communication technology skills as adults. Exposure to books, the researchers suggested, boosts these cognitive abilities by making reading a part of life’s routines and practices.

Marie Kondo’s philosophy is Japanese but there’s a corresponding Japanese philosophy of surrounding yourself with books – tsundoku – as a way of reminding yourself of all the things you don’t know.

This concept is also known as an “anti-library” – a collection of books you know you’ll never have time to read but which reflects your desire to know and learn and grow.

Taleb laid out the concept of the antilibrary in his best-selling bookThe Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable. He starts with a discussion of the prolific author and scholar Umberto Eco, whose personal library housed a staggering 30,000 books.

When Eco hosted visitors, many would marvel at the size of his library and assumed it represented the host’s knowledge — which, make no mistake, was expansive. But a few savvy visitors realized the truth: Eco’s library wasn’t voluminous because he had read so much; it was voluminous because he desired to read so much more.

Eco stated as much. Doing a back-of-the-envelope calculation, he found he could only read about 25,200 books if he read one book a day, every day, between the ages of ten and eighty. A “trifle,” he laments, compared to the million books available at any good library.

So yes, it probably seems strange to own so many books, doubly so when I work in a public library and can walk out with pretty much any book I want to read any day.  But, at least for the time being, I’m very happy to have a house full of books!

(As shown in the picture above, it’s a separate entry about my choice to keep using my cheap “college-style” bookshelves made of shelving boards and bricks, even after we recently moved into a beautiful new house.  But yes, after pricing out both custom bookshelves (!!) and even IKEA solutions (!), I decided that using the shelves I already owned and that were cheap but functional was the best way to go – at least in our basement den where they’ll be less visible.  I do have nicer shelves in our upstairs office and the bedrooms for instance!)

I linked to a good article above the pull quote above but the whole thing is so good, I’m going to quote more of it…

Drawing from Eco’s example, Taleb deduces:

“Read books are far less valuable than unread ones. [Your] library should contain as much of what you do not know as your financial means, mortgage rates, and the currently tight real-estate market allows you to put there. You will accumulate more knowledge and more books as you grow older, and the growing number of unread books on the shelves will look at you menacingly. Indeed, the more you know, the larger the rows of unread books. Let us call this collection of unread books an antilibrary. [Emphasis original]”

Maria Popova, whose post at Brain Pickings summarizes Taleb’s argument beautifully, notes that our tendency is to overestimate the value of what we know, while underestimating the value of what we don’t know. Taleb’s antilibrary flips this tendency on its head.

The antilibrary’s value stems from how it challenges our self-estimation by providing a constant, niggling reminder of all we don’t know. The titles lining my own home remind me that I know little to nothing about cryptography, the evolution of feathers, Italian folklore, illicit drug use in the Third Reich, and whatever entomophagy is. (Don’t spoil it; I want to be surprised.)

“We tend to treat our knowledge as personal property to be protected and defended,” Taleb writes. “It is an ornament that allows us to rise in the pecking order. So this tendency to offend Eco’s library sensibility by focusing on the known is a human bias that extends to our mental operations.”

These selves of unexplored ideas propel us to continue reading, continue learning, and never be comfortable that we know enough. Jessica Stillman calls this realization intellectual humility.

People who lack this intellectual humility — those without a yearning to acquire new books or visit their local library — may enjoy a sense of pride at having conquered their personal collection, but such a library provides all the use of a wall-mounted trophy. It becomes an “ego-booting appendage” for decoration alone. Not a living, growing resource we can learn from until we are 80 — and, if we are lucky, a few years beyond.

Saturday Snap – Healthy Snack?

When you wake up from a nap and see your daughter has left you a healthy snack consisting of…a fruit roll-up and a Werther’s candy. 🙂

Friday Fun Link – #DollyParton Challenge (Okay, I’ll Play)

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – Little Beer Shot in Mexico (February 2019)

I’ve hinted at it in a couple recent posts but, with one month exactly until our departure date, I’m happy to say that we’ve decided to go back to Mexico again this winter!

It was obviously a lot more touch & go with that whole “buying a new house” thing this year and up until very recently we were pretty sure we *weren’t* going to head south this year.

But there’s a few reasons we decided to pull the trigger and book a tropical vacation again this year:

1) the recent cold spell *sucked* and reminded us how much it breaks up winter to have a hot weather getaway in the middle of it.

2) ironically, by putting as many of our moving expenses on our Travel Points card as we could – everything from contractors to new furniture to pizza for the movers – we ended up with more than twice as many points to put towards a trip this year as we normally have.

3) although we’ve been trending to nicer and nicer resorts recently with last year being the most we’ve ever paid for a resort by a fair margin, we’re not so picky that we *have* to stay in super nice resorts and I feel like we’ll be just as happy anywhere, as long as there’s a beach and a buffet nearby.  So we ended up booking Crown Paradise Club Cancun this year – a resort that was already on our radar as being very family friendly but which is maybe a bit older, a bit more rundown and maybe not offering all the services you might get at a higher end resort.  But it’s also almost half the price of the resort we were at last year so I can handle a bit of wear in the furniture or a maybe having to fetch my own drink occasionally instead of having super-attentive service! (To put it in perspective, last year our resort was rated #6 on Trip Advisor out of all ~250 Cancun hotels.  This year’s resort is rated a still-respectable #50.)

4) We had “made” a lot of money in the sense that our house had appreciated quite a bit in the fifteen years we’d owned it.  So we thought we’d take a bit of those “profits” and put part of them towards our trip rather than putting the entire proceeds from the sale of our house towards our new mortgage (I know this isn’t really profits in the sense that any money we use towards our trip instead of putting towards our new mortgage is still “borrowed” – just taken from our new house instead of our old house so this reason is a bit harder to justify as a good one and my extremely fiscally responsible grandfather would not be impressed with me!)

5) On a related note, we were fully expecting to have to sit on our house for a month or more since we didn’t expect it to sell so quickly right before Christmas.  So, in our mind, the few thousand dollars we’d budgeted towards keeping our house on the market for a month or two simply gets transferred to paying for this trip.

6) As you might expect, the older I get, the more people I know are passing way – most recently the father of a high school classmate who died suddenly of a massive heart attack.  The point is, you don’t know how long you have left so I want to do everything I can to enjoy the time I have because who knows what the future will bring?

Fossilized Opal Dinosaur Tooth

Considering I barely passed Geology 101 with a 51% to get my undergrad science credit (whew!), I spend a lot of time these days thinking about dinosaurs, geologic time, and the makeup of our planet.

I know we’re hardwired for it as a species but I also think a lot about how all humans (hi!) get really worked up about really insignificant stuff in light of the fact that most humans having less than a century or so on this ~4.5 billion year old planet.

One of my mantras is “It all matters and nothing matters” and it all matters because in our brief time on this planet, we should strive to be kind, generous, empathetic to make the world a bit better when we leave it.

But nothing matters because generally, we’re all specs of dust who leave very little lasting legacy – so few of us write a book or get a song on radio or whatever it is that measures “impact” beyond maybe reproducing and sending our genes further forward into geologic time.

So anyhow, those are a few thoughts I had after looking at a picture of a pretty dinosaur tooth! 😉

(via Reddit)

Sorry, @officialRPL, I have a new favourite “RPL”

Radiohead has launched the Radiohead Public Library – a massive online archive of streaming albums, music & concert videos, rarities, merchandise and much more.

Here’s a list of ten things that are getting fans very excited about this new site.

And just for the heck of it, something not on the RPL site but instead, a fan-made graph of what every album cover they’ve released would look like if it was done in the same style as every other album (uhm, click the link to understand what I mean!)

Music Monday – “I was takin’ everything they had to give/It wasn’t all that bad a way to live/Well I’m in this desert town and it’s hot as hell/But no one’s buyin’ what I got to sell”

“Jerusalem Tomorrow” – David Olney

Secular Sunday – The Scale of the Universe

Ricky Gervais is one of my favourite comics (and one of my favourite atheists too!)…

(via Reddit)

Saturday Snap – Staycation

Maybe not quite as nice as the all-inclusive Mexican resort I posted yesterday. But our “staycation” at the recently re-branded Atlas Hotel & Waterpark in Regina with both sets of grandparents was quite a fun way to spend Saturday night!