Friday Fun Link – What’s Your Price? A Dating Site With A Twi$t

I really wish I could remember where I first came across this site otherwise it’s going to look *really* suspicious.

But anyhow, I did somehow manage to stumble across a new dating site called What’s Your Price which has a bit of a unique twist – men (who are called “The Generous” in the site’s lingo) and women (who are called “The Attractive”) are connected via a price that the woman sets for participating in a first date with the man.  Nothing else is promised or promoted for this exchange of cash and the site makes clear “what happens after that first date is entirely up to you.”

Again, I’ve never done Internet dating but I guess the idea is that participants (men or women) who have attractive pictures or profiles on regular dating sites get overwhelmed with offers while others get rejected or ignored.

This site figures that by introducing a financial incentive, things will somehow equal out for both men and women – if a man is willing to offer enough cash, he can get a date with anyone, no matter what sort of profile or photos he has on the site.

Or something like this.

Anyhow, my first response to hearing about this was “ewww…icky”.  My second was “Isn’t this sort of one teeny step from prostitution?” and my third was “Wow – I’m really glad I’m married!”

What Are the Main Factors In Being Elected?

With a federal election underway and a provincial election coming up later this year, I’ve been thinking about “what are the main factors involved in getting a candidate elected?”

This is what I’ve come up with (ranked roughly in order of importance) but would love to hear things I missed (or mis-ranked).

1. Name Recognition – there’s a reason that incumbents are elected in such a high percentage of elections and being a known name on a ballot is a big part of that.  That’s also why political parties of all stripes look for new candidates who already have name recognition – authors, athletes, media personalities and so on.

2. Safe Seats – If you’re running in a riding which has historically elected candidates from your party, even if you’re a new candidate without strong name recognition, you likely have a good chance of being elected.

3. Scandals/Hot Topics – If there’s a big issue that develops during an election which overrides local constituency concerns and other factors, that can play a part in electing candidates who might otherwise not get in.

4. Timing – Somewhat similar to the last point, if you happen to be running for an opposition party after a governing party has been in power for a number of years/election cycles, you may simply get in due to voter unrest and desire for “change”.

5. Vote Splitting – with two conservative parties in operation at the time, voting splitting is a big reason why we had federal Liberals in power through much of the 90’s and now, with the right unified and three (or four if you count Quebec’s Block party) leftist-centrist parties operating in Canada, you have the right wing Conservatives maintaining power.

6. Social Media – every election, the impact of social media grows and grows and is now becoming a major contributing factor in election successes whether it’s Barack Obama or Naheed Nenshi.  Just the fact that pretty much every candidate is on Facebook and/or Twitter and/or has a home page speaks to the impact of new media.

7. Media Coverage – favourable or unfavourable media coverage can help put someone over the top or end a campaign.  Somewhat related is the notion of “The Moment” which can be either good or bad and can define a campaign in a huge way, either intentionally or unintentionally.  For example, things like JFK being willing to wear make-up for the first televised debate when Nixon wasn’t is an example of a candidate using media to intentionally do something that helps his campaign.  On the other hand, Howard Dean’s yowl became an unintentional media moment that pretty much ended his presidential campaign.

8. Door knocking/phone banking/community events – I’m not convinced that this is the key to electoral success for a variety of reasons which I might get into in another post.  But pretty much all the politicos I know swear by it so I’m putting it down. 😉

What’d I miss?  Oh, I know – MONEY!!! – which is sort of inherent in all of these points to one degree or another.  But being able to spend lots on advertising, brochures, buttons, billboards, advertising, building quality web sites, or whatever – can play a huge part in getting a candidate elected.

E-Books, Libraries and the Lessons of Blockbuster

I’m very interested in the impact of e-books on libraries and have been doing a lot of reading on the subject lately.  I came across this article about the unprecedented fall of Blockbuster (which is contrasted with the rise of NetFlix) and it makes me wonder – are libraries more like Blockbuster?  Or are they more like NetFlix?

[Blockbuster’s fall is] such a great example of a company resting on its laurels and getting blindsided. But it’s hardly even fair to call it a “blindsiding”. Blockbuster probably could have done dozens of things to counter the rise of Netflix in that initial six year space. They were either simply too arrogant, too slow, too stupid, or all of the above to make a move.

I don’t know what impact e-books will have on libraries but like everyone, I have my theories.  But reading that article, all I can hope is that we’re not Blockbuster – assuming we have a safe, secure position in society, that nothing can threaten us, that no major technological shift could upend (or just end?) our entire existence.

I’m not a huge curling fan (especially compared to some librarians that I know!)  But since the World Men’s Curling Championships are in Regina this week and because someone at work hooked me up with four tickets for Sunday night’s draw so I could take Shea as well as my parents, I’ve been following it a lot more closely – including plunking down in front of the TV for three hours tonight to watch a huge game.

Tonight was a match-up of two undefeated teams (and a possible preview of next Sunday’s gold medal game?) with Canada’s Jeff Stoughton taking on Scotland’s Tom Brewster.  Canada prevailed to stay undefeated in round-robin play.

In honour of the victory, I thought I’d post a clip of the trick shot Stoughton occasionally does, even in real games on occasion.  Along with the retro corn broom he uses when throwing his stones, this is a guy who knows how to market his sport!

Music Monday – “I’d always taught my sons/We were safe around police/But when they charged on horses/Well, I dragged us off the street/It made me so angry/They’d endanger children too/In silencing the voices of 1932”

We had singer-songwriter Maria Dunn as the endnote speaker for one of the conferences I organized when I worked for the Writers Guild of Alberta.  She gave an awesome presentation about her writing process mixed with a performance of songs from what was then her newest CD (she was in town a couple weeks ago and though I wasn’t able to make it to her concert, I did note that she has a new CD out which I’ve bought.)

The conference was in Drumheller at the Royal Tyrrell Museum and Shea was able to join me which was especially cool.  This was one of our favourite songs…

Internet in Cuba

A few random thoughts on Internet (or lack thereof) during our recent week-long holiday in Cuba…

  • I am happy to report that I didn’t have any seizures or meltdowns after a week without Internet access of any kind.  (In comparison, even when we went to Mexico in 2003, I ended up going to a nearby mall to check e-mail a couple times during the week.)
  • Even knowing Internet wasn’t available, I decided to take my iPhone so Pace would have games and movies on the plane and also because it would be happy for snapping quickie photos when we were there.  (I also had a few Spanish-English dictionary apps loaded but only made use of them with our taxi driver when we went to Havana.  I can’t wait until the iPhone is like a Star Trek translator.  Actually, a basic form is already here – and, best of all, it doesn’t even need an Internet connection to work! I didn’t buy the app because I didn’t think I would use it but wish I had.)
  • I’d read conflicting reports about plugging in an iPhone in Cuba but luckily our hotel, even though it had 220V outlets throughout, did have one in the bathroom that had a switch to flip to 110V and even more fortunately, my iPhone actually did charge when I plugged it in.  Plus there were no power surges or other weirdness to turn my phone into an iBrick.
  • On that note, probably the times I missed the Net the most were when I had any type of question – Who is Jose Marti?  What is the population of Havana – and other trivial minutia like that which we now take for granted having answers at our fingertips.  (I think you can download a non-Net enabled version of Wikipedia and that probably would’ve covered many of my questions.)
  • I observed to Shea that once we got out of the resort, Cuba had many similarities to what life was like for our grandparents – struggling to get by, rural-based lifestyles, animals on the roadways, limited travel options for most, none or few of the conveniences of modern life – from electricity to telephone, let alone Internet, maybe even knowing that you’re at a transitional period in your country’s history?
  • In the very earliest days of the mainstream Internet, there was a lot of talk about “Internet addiction” as a new disease.  I recently read an article which wondered if that was still a concern/reality or if it’s just “the way things are now” with many people connected 24/7 via their home computers, smart phones, work computers, ubiquitous wifi and city-wide wireless plans that either exist (in Regina, covering our downtown and the University) or are in the works.  (I’m not sure if going without Internet for a whole week means I don’t have Internet addiction but I’m going to say that it does!)
  • Internet at the hotel was something like $5 for half an hour of dial-up type access.  No one in our group used it though my brother-in-law’s girlfriend contemplated using it to e-mail home, especially when she realised she had to go to the Marina to make international calls!
  • On that note, I had my iPhone on “Airplane” mode the entire week but briefly turned it on to see if it would pick up signal.  It did (Cubatel) and I even dialed my parent’s number in Canada but chickened out when I got a Cuban operator.  (Just got my Rogers bill and that little one minute experiment cost me $3.)

Saturday Snap – Winter’s Ending & Time For Spring Cleaning

Saw this in front of a house where I catch the bus…

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Friday Fun Link – NHL Player Rater

In honour of the Flames’ Jarome Iginla getting his 1000th career point tonight, here’s a really cool site that displays the names of two fairly equal NHL players and allows you to pick which one you think is best.  (If you don’t recognize one or both players, it helpfully puts their career stats side-by-side and highlights who is in the lead in various categories.) Then it returns you to the home page to do it again.  (Warning – addictive!)

It shows the Top 5 skaters and Top 5 goalies on the home page and you can also see the composite ratings for all players.

Since discovering this site a few weeks ago, it’s been fun to watch the Top 5 Skaters change – for awhile it was Bobby Orr at the top then Mario Lemieux then Gordie Howe and back to Mario Lemieux as I type this.  They’re all really close but surprisingly, I don’t think I’ve ever seen arguably the most dominant athlete in any sport ever, Wayne Gretzky in the top spot yet!  (Sorry, I can’t find the article from Sports Illustrated (?) which compares Gretzky, Michael Jordan, Joe Montana and some baseball player and finds Gretzky was the best out of all of them when compared to the next best dominant figures in their respective sports.)

(Oh, and Iggy is at #39 as I type this by the way.  I’m sure that’ll go up given his milestone tonight!)

Five Theories on Why Cuba Is Still Embargoed

Why there’s still a US Embargo against Cuba, especially since the Cold War is over and it’s now easier for a US citizen to travel to Moscow than Havana, is a question I’ve pondered in the past but especially since our recent trip.

Here are a few theories I’ve come across…

1. After I got back and was talking to a co-worker, she said “it’s simple – corporations have really long memories and Castro seized billions in US corporate assets when he seized power.   The US won’t lift the embargo until they can figure out a way for the corporations to get their assets back.  Preferably with interest.”

2. The author of the book I’m reading right now has a revelation near the end of his book after being fairly pro-Castro and pro-Cuba that Castro *wants* the US blockade to continue so he has a giant boogeyman to use to explain everything that goes wrong or right in his country and help make him a David v. Goliath figure.

3.  On the flip side, some would argue that it’s a way for the US Government to make a show of opposing “communism” though they still trade with China and other communist/socialist countries.  The US might be willing to lift the embargo but Castro would have to institute democratic measures such as freedom of the press, free votes, freedom of assembly and so on.

4. The embargo helps keep Castro relatively weak.  Opening up trade with the US could lead to a huge influx of cash which would give the Cuban government more power.

5.  Gotta justify all that US military spending somehow! 😉

“Service to Community is the Best Work of Life”

Apparently I wasn’t the only one who got inspired by Dwain Lingenfelter talking about his father at the recent NDP convention. The NDP candidate in my area, Jaime Garcia, writes about the inspiration his own father has been to him.

Since the federal election’s been called, there have been lots of people grumbling that it’s a waste of money, that nothing will change, that we’ve had too many elections in the past few years.  Well, read Jaime’s article and remember that there are people who’ve given hugely for their beliefs and for things that many of us in Canada take for granted.

(And one commentator made a good point – even if, after the election, we saw the exact same seat breakout as we have now, we might actually end up with the most change of all!  Stephen Harper might move on/be pushed out since he couldn’t bring the PC’s a majority.  Michael Ignantieff would have demonstrated he can’t reverse the Liberal party’s fortunes and his party may push him out as well.  And depending on the toll the campaign takes on him with his various health issues, Jack Layton could decide to step aside too.  Of course, Gilles Duceppe is like a bad fungus and will be around forever!  Just kidding – part of me loves what he brings – since he isn’t trying to impress anyone outside of Quebec, he frequently gives the most honest assessments of the issues.)

And since we’re talking about paternal inspirations, here’s my own sappy take on it.