Pace Starts Kindergarten Today

I know I keep saying it but where did the last five years go?  Wow…

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“The Speech” – A Look Back at Obama’s Breakthrough Moment (and Ryan Meili’s Potential Equivalent?)

As the Democratic National Convention kicks off this week, I’m reminded of the single speech that catapulted Obama into the national spotlight at the 2004 convention.

Coincidentally today, the race for the leadership of the Saskatchewan NDP kicked off.

I’ve written before about the parallels I’ve seen between Barack Obama and Ryan Meili, one of the potential candidates in the #skndpldr race and although perhaps not as rhetorically dynamic as the Obama speech, Meili’s talk at the recent TEDxRegina conference about the connection between health and politics is equally engaging for its groundbreaking call for a new approach to politics and indeed, a new way to seeing the world.

Music Monday – “What’s gonna happen to you/You have woke up too soon/And found the world rearranged/And now your feelings have changed”

Shea found this one which is timely for Pace’s first day of kindergarten this week (and also for triggering tears in his very mixed emotion parents):

“Breaking Bad” on Wikia & Reddit

“Breaking Bad” has made Sunday one of my favourite nights of the week, doubly so thanks to sites like Wikia and the spoiler-heavy BrBa sub-reddit.

Saturday Snap – 10 Things We Had At Our Wedding (That Most People Don’t)

Went to a co-worker’s wedding today and felt like I virtually attended another one with how many updates I was seeing on my Facebook newsfeed.

As always, that gets me thinking about Shea’s and my own wedding nine and a half years ago.

Talking to some of the other guests at this most recent wedding made me realize how many unique elements our three weddings had.

 

1. Three weddings – the legal one with a JP in our living room in Calgary, the ceremonial one on the beach in Mexico (which we consider our “real” one) and the reception/party one in Shea’s hometown for all the family and friends who couldn’t join us in Mexico

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2. Calgary’s cheapest JP (I called them all.)

3. The reason she was the cheapest? She was twice divorced, a detail that came up post-ceremony over a glass of wine when my cousin and his girlfriend who stood up with Shea and I revealed they were both currently undergoing divorces of their own.

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4. The “mawidge” monologue from “The Princess Bride” integrated into our own vows

5. A topless woman lounging on the beach as we did our rehearsal walk-thru

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6. A first dance where the bride and groom immediately left the dance floor while all other couples stayed through a number of verses of our chosen song based on the length of their marriage and then, not having planned it this way but it worked out perfectly as two couples – one from my side and one from hers – both were out there at the end having made it 40+ years of marriage.

7. A last dance song

8. Karaoke

9. Tequila shots

10. Cuban cigarillos that were mistaken for marijuana joints by the mother of the bride (prompting the bride to jokingly (?) tell her mom, “Mom, the people smoking pot went *behind* the house to do it!”)

Bonus: Pipe bombs (don’t ask)

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Friday Fun Link – 11 Month Old Twins Dance To Daddy’s Guitar

Go ahead and try not to smile – I dare you!

On Getting Along With People

One of the things I pride myself on is my ability to get along with people and treat people equally. In fact, I’d hazard a guess that if a range of friends, acquaintances and colleagues were quizzed about my defining characteristic, they’d say “friendly”.

My ability to get along with a wide range of people goes for (almost) all personality types; all socioeconomic levels; all levels of our hierarchy when I’m at work; all levels of notoriety whether it’s a world-famous author at a reading or the janitor who’s cleaning up after the event is over.

I pride myself on this but I also know I’m not always successful.  As with most people, there are at least one or two personality types that will always be oil & water when I’m involved.   There are times when I allow myself to be starstruck by a celebrity, whether they deserve that awe or not.  There are times when I treat people filling different roles at my workplace differently.

And there’s also the self-awareness factor.  One of the realities of the notion of self-awareness is that you can never be fully self-aware as it’s impossible to fully know how others perceive you. As much as I like to think I get along with everyone and treat everyone equally, I’m sure there are people who think I’m an asshole or that I’ve mis-treated them in some way or whatever.

Anyhow, the reason I’m thinking about this topic is I had occasion to talk to a couple different colleagues today which, if the library were a Twilight novel, would have one member on “Team Edward” and one on “Team Jacob”.  Yet personally, I like both equally and enjoy my interactions with each of them equally as well.

And as I said off-the-top, I take great pride in that.

Ranking The Top 10 Milestones of a Person’s Life

In exactly one week, Pace starts kindergarten. It’s a cliche but it truly is hard to believe how fast the time has flown. I thought it might be fun to try to rank the major milestones of a person’s life. Other than being born and dying, I know not everyone will hit these milestones but this is more of a personal reflection…

  1. Being born – obviously this kicks off everything that comes after so it’s a pretty big deal!
  2. Dying – the flip side of the coin to #1.
  3. First Word – language is one of the most important attributes that humans have over (most) other animals so the first signs of acquiring language are hugely important. (I’ve told the story before but I spent much of my early years in a bulk fuel dealership my parents ran. That informed my first three words which were apparently “clock”, “combine” and “fuck”!)
  4. Graduating High School – there are other educational milestones – from starting kindergarten to finishing a college degree – but I’d argue that high school grad still has a special symbolism of a transition time in our culture.
  5. Getting Married – it’s such an important milestone, some people may do it two or even three times in their lives! 😉
  6. Driver’s License – is there anything that signifies a person’s growing independence than getting their driver’s license?
  7. First Steps – Driving may be the biggest symbol of a person’s independence but taking one’s first steps start you on that path.
  8. First Job – So many of these things are about the transition from childhood to adulthood and first job is definitely one that clearly marks that transition – even if you’re still living in your parent’s house when you get it!
  9. Legal Drinking Age – Not everyone chooses to imbibe but it’s a pretty big part of the social life of our culture and can play a role in everything from a toast at your wedding to a beer you have sitting in the sun at a Riders game to a shot of Bailey’s poured into your coffee on Christmas morning.
  10. Losing Virginity – it may not be as talked about as the others on this list but this is yet another major milestone on a person’s road to adulthood.

What else could go on this list? First car. First kiss. First major trip. First of anything pretty much, I guess. I’m sure there are others I’ve missed but those are some of the biggies off the top of my head.

Best of luck buddy!

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Handicapping the Sask NDP Leadership Race (Before It Even Begins)

Murray Mandryk of the Leader Post has some thoughts on the unofficial jockeying for position that’s happening behind-the-scenes as potential candidates position themselves for a run at the leadership of the Saskatchewan NDP. (I think candidates can officially begin announcing next month maybe?)

Based on Mandryk’s article, here are the presumed candidates (alphabetically) with what I see as their main strengths and weaknesses in my (admittedly limited) view:

Buckley Belanger
Strength:  Easily the most experienced of the potential candidates.
Weakness: The NDP is ready for an Aboriginal leader but I’m not sure if the province is.

Cam Broten
Strength: I have to be honest.  Cam is probably the candidate I know the least about of the four “big” names (even compared to Erin Weir who I’ve read articles by and seen on TV.)  So I can’t really speak to Broten’s strengths.  Mandryk says he’s arguably been the best performer of the small but mighty NDP caucus and simply being a sitting MLA is presumably an advantage in the eyes of some NDP members who will be voting for the next party leader.
Weakness:
Mandryk also observed that Broten has the least “trust” as he doesn’t seem to have gotten a team around him.  I don’t know how much truth there is to this as Mandryk’s based in Regina so perhaps isn’t as plugged in to what Broten’s supporters are doing behind-the-scenes in Saskatoon as the other candidates, all of whom already have vocal Regina-based supporters? But if that’s true, it doesn’t bode well for his chances.

Danielle Chartier
Strength: 
I personally don’t like having token candidates but there are some I’ve talked to who feel the race needs a female to run and would vote for a female candidate on that basis alone.  I wouldn’t base an entire campaign on having two x chromosomes but it could be a starting point for a broader appeal?
Weakness:  Even though she has the advantage of being a sitting MLA, she arguably has the lowest profile of any of the potential candidates including Ryan Meili who is well-known from his last leadership run and Erin Weir who has had lots of national media coverage as a pundit on various shows.

Ryan Meili
Strength: Well, I’m biased as a Ryan supporter but I still believe he’s the only potential candidate I’ve seen with the potential to be a transformative leader for our province.
Weakness:  A lot of people (including Mandryk) think that Ryan dropping out of the race for the Saskatoon-Sutherland nomination is a weakness but personally, I think that’s inside baseball that only the people who live & breathe politics care about.  Even among the general membership of the NDP, I doubt most people would care about this too much.  So for me, Ryan’s lack of actual political experience is probably his biggest weakness.

Trent Wotherspoon
Strength: Broten may be a better performer bur arguably, Trent has seemed to have a higher profile of the two (and based on the traveling he’s already doing around the province according to his Facebook page, I’d agree with Mandryk that Wotherspoon is probably the front-runner at this point.)
Weakness: Mandryk’s right on the money that Wotherspoon’s close association with Dwain Lingenfelter will likely be toxic (okay, Mandryk may not have used that exact word!) to his leadership run given the post-apocalyptic state of the NDP after Link’s short reign.

Erin Weir
Strength: For some, the fact that he’s a huge policy wonk and/or that he’s got an established national media profile will be big strengths for his campaign but I think that a strength is that he’s got potential to fill that “outsider who comes-out-of-nowhere” role that lifted Ryan Meili to a second place finish last time.
Weakness: In the same way that Ryan was an outsider to the party with little actual direct involvement with the NDP before his leadership race, Erin is similarly an outsider in that he’s got roots in the province but has been based outside of and built much of his profile beyond our borders, leaving him as more of an unknown commodity here.  

The other thing in the mix is that there’s always potential for someone unexpected and/or unknown to jump into the race.  I think Ryan Meili was that person last time so there could be someone else from the social justice movement or pretty much anywhere else that announces.  Or perhaps, if the NDP hasn’t been burned by the “bring back a former star” experiment with Link, someone like say, former MLA Andrew Thomson, could shake things up by announcing.  (Completely speculating there – just throwing out a name of a former rising star who was seen to have leadership ambitions at one point.)

Music Monday – “You Just Put Your Lips Together…and Blow”

I usually put a lyric from the featured song in the title of my Music Monday posts but this one’s a little harder for obvious reasons.

So instead, I’ve used a famous movie quote that’s quite fitting (so fitting, it was also referenced in a recent hit song called “Whistle“.)

(via Huffington Post)