Sasha is One Month Old!

I’ve been taking at least a photo of Sasha every day since she was born.

I’d seen various videos made from daily pics of babies, kids and others over the years but didn’t put a lot of thought into doing this with Sasha until, oh, pretty much the day she was born.

While hanging out with Shea and Sasha in the mother & baby unit, I downloaded an app that claimed to help you with this process.  I used it for awhile but after a couple weeks, realised that the photos it took didn’t end up with a date stamp so if/when I exported them, the dates and times they were taken wouldn’t be on the photos but instead, all would have the time I exported them (wouldn’t have been a problem if I immediately exported after taking but the app also had a couple other issues I realised later in the process that made me abandon it.)  I played around with a couple other apps but nothing ended up being any better than just taking a picture with the iPhone’s camera and putting it in a folder called “Sasha Daily”.

That means I don’t have a shadow guide to the previous day’s shot(s) like some Daily Photo apps do (and I didn’t have this in the initial app I downloaded either) so these pictures don’t create a true morphing effect where Sasha’s face stays in the same position from shot to shot (not that you could easily get this with a wiggling, squirming baby anyhow!).  And anyhow, I kinda like the effect with roughly the same framing for each shot but each one having her with a different head position, clothes and facial expression.

Oh, and I haven’t downloaded pictures since the weekend so this montage is missing photos from the last couple days of her first month.  (Normally I’m a bit of a perfectionist with these types of things and could’ve just easily e-mailed them to myself from my iPhone to round out the video properly.  But did I mention I’m too sleep-deprived to care too much?) 😉

Anyhow, enjoy (and watch for one shot that’s a possible preview of our thank-you cards – another thing that’s taking longer to get to then we’d hoped!)

Music Monday – “For here am I sitting in a tin can/Far above the world/Planet Earth is blue/And there’s nothing I can do”

Canadian astronaut, Col. Chris Hadfield’s final message from the International Space Station before returning to earth after five months in space is quite fitting (and has already gone viral like so much of the other content he’s provided.  One great example – a geography teacher at a Nova Scotia Community College created a cool Google Maps mash-up which allows you to see all of the numerous cool photos Hadfield took from space.)

Hadfield has probably done more to make space cool than anyone in recent memory.  Here’s a great comment from the MetaFilter thread about Hadfield:

I’ve been following Chris Hadfield’s posts for months now. He is so kind and gentle, like a favourite teacher, like a character from a kids book, the one that teaches you to work hard and follow your dreams. It’s kind of hard these days to believe anyone could be so genuine and sincere, but he is. And he is so so so achingly Canadian, the distillation of everything we all hope to be, humble and mild-mannered but still proud to be doing our part to make the world a better place. Wearing the maple leaf on his sleeve, the best kind of Canadian hero, one who achieves global recognition without having to claw or fight his way to the top or turn his back on his provincial roots, still charming and trusting, and even eager and proud to bring all of us along for the ride.

This is a great poster inspired by Hadfield’s story that should be posted in every classroom in the country.

(via MetaFilter)

Live Map of Changes to Wikipedia

Fascinating (although not quite as comprehensive as you’d expect – only people who aren’t logged in to Wikipedia accounts have their IP addresses logged when they make edits.  So this visualization only shows a small subset of active Wikipedia editors – mostly made up of those not committed enough to have an account or who are making quick changes without bothering to log-in.  Still fascinating though!)

Saturday Snap – I’m Going To Pay For This One Someday…

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Although she *does* come by it honestly… 😉

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Friday Fun Link – GeoGuessr

GeoGuessr is a pretty fun online game where it shows you a random location from Google Street View and then you zoom in and click on a world map to guess where you are with points being assigned based on how close you are to the actual location.

There are no “rules” per se but you can either make your best guess depending on where you “beam down to” or you can “cheat” a bit and move around using the keyboard to look for clues – street signs, buildings that have the names of their city on them, identifiable landmarks, etc.

(via MetaFilter who are suspicious this site may be a viral marketing attempt by the Australian Tourism Council since that country shows up a lot!)

Global Accessibility Awareness Day – May 9

Today is Global Accessibility Awareness Day.

It’s a day to consider how people with disabilities experience the web, software, mobile devices, games and so on, targeted towards designers, developers, usability professionals and others without much experience with accessibility. There are public events scheduled all over the world, as well as other accessibility-related events. To participate on your own, try one of the suggested activities: turn off your mouse or trackpad and use only your keyboard to navigate websites, try using a free screen reader, such as NVDA for Windows or the built in VoiceOver for Mac and iOS, try watching some streaming videos or movies with captions or add some of your own to a video you’ve uploaded. Then relax with a sample of described videoKatniss, from the Hunger Games, goes hunting.

(via MetaFilter)

Although, I’ve always been aware of the importance of accessibility (which I interpret broadly – not just for say, visually impaired but people of different languages,intellectual abilities, the way you structure your layout, etc.)  in web design going back to my earliest days learning HTML in the late 1990’s, I’m not always the best practitioner.  For example, I rarely put ALT tags on my blog’s images even though that’s Accessibility 101 (I don’t do this probably out of pure laziness as much as anything.  It’s also partly due to a very rough cost-benefit analysis that the effort of doing so would probably not be worth it as its unlikely the few people who visit my site would benefit in any significant way and/or if someone who *does* have a need for these tags is probably used to going to sites without them.)

Of course, now that I work in Outreach Services where I work constantly with visually impaired people I feel like a bit of a dick for admitting that!

In fact, I literally had not one but two conversations with patrons just today about accessibility.  One pointed out how the pull-down menu that you use to select which of the province’s 10 library systems you belong to when logging into our e-book service don’t work with his screen reader software making the e-book site all but inaccessible to him.  Another came in to use our public access computer which is loaded with JAWS, ZoomText and other accessibility software.  But when he got to the SaskTel web site (he needed to re-set his Voice Mail password), the site’s colours and layout (not to mention simply how much information the site contains) made it very hard for him to find the spot he was looking for and then complete the password reset.

Obviously a problem that’s only going to get worse with an aging population (how many older patrons move to e-readers simply because they like being able to adjust font size without the “embarrassment” of taking out large print books)?

*Please* Don’t Believe In Psychics. Please! Pretty Please!!!

My life has developed over the years to a point where I endeavour to lead my life and make my decisions from a place that’s focused on using evidence, science, skepticism and facts to determine how I understand and interact with the world.  This is the culmination of many things coming together – my lifelong love of books and reading (especially non-fiction), my early skepticism about religion, my university education, my own critical thought about how the world works, spending time in relevant Internet forums.

For that reason, there’s a long list of things I don’t believe to be real (like a good science-minded individual, I would never say that I *wouldn’t* change my mind if strong, consistent evidence showed otherwise.  But just that right now, there is no credible scientific evidence for any of them.)  This includes religion (of any kind), paranormal phenomena, ghosts, astrology, UFO’s (although math proves that alien life of some sort is a near certainty), vaccines being harmful, horoscopes, psychics (I accidentally typed “physics” but rest assured, that I *do* believe in!), many conspiracy theories of varying levels of believability, and much more.

I often try to capture how I feel about people who *do* believe in these things – my religious friends who go to search every Sunday, the family members who send me horoscopes.  Saying these people are “stupid” or “dumb” feels pretty harsh and is incorrect since many of these people are really quite intelligent, well-read and worldly.  “Ignorant” is closer but still a pretty loaded term.  For me, a better way I’ve found to think of people who believe in things that have no basis in reality (and let’s not get into an argument about what “reality” really is!) is to think of these people as being otherwise intelligent, kind, well-intentioned people who happen to have *very large* blind spots in their thinking.

We all do and what I said off the top about my own views isn’t meant to indicate I’m somehow better than anyone else in this area.  I have my own gaps – all the evidence tells me that the lifestyle I lead – in terms of much of the food I eat and the exercise I don’t get – isn’t good for me.  Yet I persist in “believing” that it’s not too harmful to me.  I don’t believe in ghosts but childhood conditioning plus too many horror novels and movies means my heart rate would go up if I had to walk around an abandoned farm house late at night. I suffer from The Campfire Delusion where I partake in an activity pretty much all summer that science shows is most likely very harmful to me.

Now, “not too harmful” is a good way to describe most people’s involvement with religion, paranormal interests, etc.  For most, these are mostly harmless interests/activities/passions that don’t affect many people and often do good (as I admit some churches do.)  True believers might spend some money getting their palms read or have to live with the odd irrational fear just because it’s dark and they think they see a ghostly figure out the window.  But usually these beliefs don’t cause irreparable harm.

The problem comes when these faulty beliefs do cause active harm to themselves and others.  The recent news about the escape of three young women who’d been abducted and held for a decade in a Cleveland basement is horrific.  What is almost as bad in its own way is the news that noted psychic, Sylvia Browne, had incorrectly pronounced a vision that one of the teens was dead in 2004.  Browne made this harsh announcement to the teen’s mother on a national daytime talk show, possibly causing a grief spiral that contributed to the mother’s early death a couple years later.  (In fact, even though Browne claims an 80-90% success rate and that “only God is right 100% of the time”, one analysis puts her success rate at 0% out of 115 public predictions made on the Montel Williams show!)

Browne has a long history of incorrect predictions, often in highly charged situations responding to the desperate queries of those who are ill or have lost loved one.  I am part of the problem here too – I have long thought of psychos (er, psychics) like Browne and those of her ilk are borderline evil.  But when I got a request to purchase one of her books at Southeast Regional Library, I bit my tongue and approved it.  (I should write about my views on the social and moral responsibility of the librarian sometime. The short form is that if I don’t believe a preacher should be able to refuse to perform a gay wedding because of their personal beliefs or a doctor shouldn’t refuse information about abortion, a librarian also shouldn’t allow their personal beliefs to influence their work in building a collection that is representative of all points of view including those they may not personally agree with.)

Anyhow, if you would like to begin leading a slightly more skeptical life, why not start by realising that *all* psychics are fakes – mostly skilled at the art of cold-reading people who are often in situations where they are desperate to hear reassuring (or at least definitive) answers to their biggest problems – illness, relationships, death.

The Dangers of Vertical Video Syndrome

I, too, used to do this

…until I realised there was a better way.

For the love of Dog, people, turn your camera phones sideways!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bt9zSfinwFA

Music Monday – “Oh Mr. Mom/Balancing check books, juggling bills/Thought there was nothing to it/Baby, now I know how you feel/Oh Honey, you’re my hero”

Back to work today after two and a half weeks at home with the new baby is pretty tough.

I keep telling anyone who’ll listen that I’m really jealous of two guys I know who are both relatively new dads – one is a University professor who (I assume on purpose) timed his sabbatical year to coincide with the birth of their child.  The other is an RCMP officer who was able to take a year’s paternity leave at 90% salary since his wife was already a stay-at-home mom to their first child.

When I’m King of the World, a couple of my first changes will be to extend maternity leave benefits to 18-months instead of a year (not least because there’s a “daycare gap” in our society when many moms get a year of leave but many day cares won’t take kids until they’re 18 months, forcing parents to scramble, take longer (usually unpaid) leaves, rely on relatives or pay extra to put their kids in one of the few daycare spots for younger kids.)  And while I’m doing that, I’d also allow new fathers to take a six month paid paternity leave, structured similarly to and in addition to maternity leave (unlike the current situation where parents often have the option for both but have to choose one or the other instead of both a paternity and maternity leave at the same time.)

[Edit: A co-worker suggested an alternate plan that may be more workable than allowing concurrent leaves.  Give the mother a year as is currently the case but then grant the father an additional six month leave instead of giving the mother 18 months.  That way you still close the “daycare” gap and both parents get a leave with the child, just not at the same time – unless the wife chooses to take an extended leave as Shea has done and will do for both of our kids.]

Many people only focus on the economic bottom line for questions like this – oh, the cost to EI would be too high, productivity would go down, employers would struggle to replace fathers who go on the leave.

But I think the overall benefit to our society of allowing full families to bond in a child’s earliest months, although difficult to measure on a spreadsheet, would pay off greatly in the long term in ways we can’t even imagine. Less postpartum depression.  Less divorce.  Less child abuse.  A stronger social fabric overall.  Who knows what else having fathers more involved could lead to?    (And I can’t help but note that what I’m proposing probably falls into what would more traditionally be seen as a “conservative” (eg. family-centered) value if you choose to look at it through that lens.)

A man can dream…

Anyhow, this song doesn’t *quite* capture what I’m talking about but it’s a fun one so I’ll post it anyhow.  Oh, and today is Sasha’s *official* due date.  I’m *really* glad she came out to meet us a few weeks early!  We’re already three weeks closer to her sleeping through the night than we would’ve been if she arrived today! 😉

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This is brilliant…although if Sasha’s anything like her big brother, she’d find a way to pee on the iPad instead of the pot.  (A co-worker still brings up the story we told him when Pace was a toddler of Pace standing in our living room and peeing on our VCR!)

(via /r/Daddit)

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