Saturday Snap – Elfis?

Last year, we gave in and bought a stupid Dollar Store “Elf on a Shelf” rip-off to move around every night for Sasha.

Turned out it was actually kind of fun coming up with scenarios and jokes for the little guy and I might’ve got more enjoyment out of it than she did!

This year, “Rainbow” (Sasha’s name for the elf) had a bit of a challenge since we were in the midst of a move and we weren’t sure if he’d spend time at the old and new houses or just the new house or what as we transitioned from one to the other in early December.

Rainbow ended up spending every night in December exploring the new house and when we’d pop by every day, he’d be in a new spot (completely unrelated, the day before, dad might “forget his keys” or “have to check the lights are out” once everyone was loaded in the van.)

Anyhow, I’m very conscious that childhood magic is fleeting (Sasha’s already questioning Santa but yet seems to fully believe in Rainbow’s ability to move around the house every night and how he loses this ability if a kid touches him) so I’m going to make the most of it!

Friday Fun Link – My New Christmas Movie Tradition?

I was in the habit of watching *Love Actually” every December but last year I didn’t get to it and instead I watched this which has nothing to do with Christmas but, since I watched it right before Christmas, still managed to feel like a Christmas movie if that makes sense?

 

Throwback Thursday – First Glimpse of Our New House (September 2019)

For the last few years, Shea and I have been occasionally “kicking the tires” on houses that caught our eye.  We were looking for something a bit bigger, something a bit newer, something a bit more fully featured than the 1977 starter home we bought fifteen years ago.

When we went to see another house that had caught Shea’s eye (and which is one she later told me had stood out to her a few years ago the last time it sold!) on our way home from camping on September long weekend, who knew that three short months later, I’d be sitting pretty much in the same spot where Shea appears to be pointing in this photo that I took during that viewing! 🙂

Sold!

Some Thoughts On Buying And Selling Houses in December

Shea and I made the offer on our new house on October 5 and took possession on November 22.

For a variety of reasons, we were in a fortunate position where we didn’t have to make the purchase conditional on the sale of our old house and, in fact, we were fully prepared to float two mortgages for a while if we had to including into the new year as the conventional wisdom is that you shouldn’t list houses for sale in December because people don’t tend to buy houses at that time of year anyhow so your house just ends up sitting on the market longer than if you’d held off until the new year for a new listing.

Our realtor said there were reasons to list it before Christmas and reasons to hold off until the new year but she pointed out that ultimately, if you list before Christmas and don’t get much interest, other realtors will know it’s likely due to the holidays being a slow time and not assume your house is sitting for a long time because there’s something wrong with it.

On the other hand, she pointed out that you never know when your buyer is looking and you don’t want to miss that window.  Or leave your house empty for an extended period with all the increased risks of break-ins, water breaks, higher insurance costs, etc.  Or, even if you’re in a position and willing to do so, why would you carry two mortgages (and all related expenses for two houses – utilities, insurance, etc.) not to mention that a house might simply be *harder* to sell once it’s completely empty since buyers assume you’re desperate.

Thinking how we’d bought our previous house in December, how I’d moved into an apartment for library school in December, how many people get transferred for work or start school on January 1, how an increasing number of people don’t even celebrate Christmas so they’re less likely to hit “pause” on a home search just because it’s December, etc. made us realise that it’s not like no one is moving in December.  In fact, you might even have some big advantages selling around the holidays.

For all those reasons, we decided we could make all the timelines work and we were able to get our house listed before the end of November using professional photos taken while our house was still in-transition rather than completely empty so we didn’t look like, well, people who were desperate to sell and likely carrying two mortgages. 😉

I don’t want to jinx anything but I will mention that we had six showings within three days (!) and at least one potential buyer was *very* interested.

So it remains to be seen what might happen next. But with my fingers crossed, I’ll say that deciding to list our house in late November might turn out to be a great decision after all!

Music Monday – “Christmas Eve will find me/Where the love light gleams/I’ll be home for Christmas/If only in my dreams”

I can’t believe I’ve never posted this song before – one of the most absolutely beautiful, heart-wrenching Christmas songs of all-time.

And so appropriate these days too.

We’re extremely excited for our first Christmas in our new house of course. But it also comes with mixed emotions knowing that a decision we made only two short months ago to make an offer on a new house means that somewhat abruptly, we won’t get to celebrate a final Christmas in the house we’ve called home for fifteen years.

I never got around to it but I had a mini-tradition where I’d position myself in such a way on Christmas morning that I could shoot video of Pace (and eventually Sasha) running down our main hallway to get their first glimpse of the Christmas tree with Santa’s gifts under it.

My idea was to cut the videos from each year in such a way that the kids would morph from young to older as they ran down the hall (and the fact I can describe it better than do it is why I’m an English major and not a Film major!) 😉

Anyhow, take it away King…

I’ll Be Home For Christmas” – Elvis Presley

10 Random Thoughts About Our Move

  1. No matter how organized you are, there will be things you need to put your hands on that you can’t find.  (I have a box that I kept separate that has all my essentials – screwdriver, box cutter, tape measure, packing tape, scissors, jumbo sharpie marker, etc. etc. but when I need some regular Scotch tape, do you think I could find it?)
  2. No matter how much you measure and visualize, not everything will fit as expected when you get it into your new house.
  3. I’ve written about how we’re trying to keep the process stress-free for us but I’m also trying to keep it stress-free for the contractors we’re using.  It was very nice to hear one of our movers at the end of the day talk about how much he enjoyed working with us when a lot of their day-to-day work is people (admittedly who are in a stressful situation) micromanaging and criticizing everything they do.  How much fun did they have?  At one point, one worker felt comfortable enough to say “I’m not going to lie – I tried out your massage chair before we carried it up” and, instead of giving him shit, I said “Good, then you’ll know how it should work when you put it back together on the other end!”  Or how they loaded our bikes by riding them up the ramp instead of walking them.  Or how they tried the kid’s slide that our new house has attached to our deck. Or how they cracked up when I said “The next time you guys move me, it’ll be straight into a nursing home and I ain’t taking any of this heavy shit with me!”
  4. There are a lot of hidden costs in moving you might not think of – from moving supplies adding up to more than you budget to all sorts of fees and charges from everyone you work with to realising all the things you thought you had but need to buy for your new house to the cost of buying your movers lunch.
  5. On the flip side, you can save lots of money in various ways as well – we got the majority of boxes we used for free from the liquor store and grocery store instead of buying new (or used) moving boxes, we lucked into a bedroom set that was marked down $700 the week *before* Black Friday when it went back up to the original price – hmmm?), I’m not averse to buying stuff from discount racks anywhere I go – Canadian Tire, Leons Furniture – or from resell sites like Kijiji and Facebook Marketplace.
  6. One of the toughest parts of moving is once you get everything into your new house but then you realise it’s still going to take weeks (months?) to get it all unpacked and organized. <sigh>
  7. No matter how many trips you make to your empty old house, you’ll still keep finding things you’ve forgotten to pack – decorations stuck on windows, a security cam hidden out of sight, a toilet brush that you should probably replace anyhow (should’ve listed it as an “inclusion” on our house listing! 😉
  8. Moving about six blocks from your old house to your new house is awesome – while the movers were loading up on big furniture and household items, I loaded our van and made about three or four runs to our house to unload smaller stuff.  (Also, from a cost saving point of view, we paid the movers to actually move stuff instead of having to pay them to sit on a truck which would’ve been the case if they had to make three trips across Regina and back and could’ve added hours to our day.)
  9. Yes, we did have three moving truck loads of stuff to move even after filling a dumpster *then* loading a Big Steel Box container ourselves!  To be fair, since we moved all the boxes ourselves, the remaining furniture didn’t fit into the truck neatly (I spent a lot of time thinking about how much I played Tetris as a kid during this move and how people always say video games aren’t providing life skills!) which is part of the reason they had to do three trips instead of two.
  10. It’s a toss-up on whether buying the new house or selling the old house is more stressful but hopefully we’ll have an update on that sooner rather than later! 🙂

Saturday Snap – Coming Together Nicely

Moving day is done, lots of unpacking still to do but the new house is starting to come together!

(Hard to believe those two black couches are ones we bought from The Brick over fifteen years ago when we lived in Calgary.  They’re still in great shape to this day!)

Friday Fun Link – The Ultimate Moving Checklist Might Not Be A Pre-Made List

There are a zillion different moving guides online with all sorts of tips, tricks and reminders.

But honestly, for our move, I found that using an online To Do manager with different lists for things like “Timeline”, “To Buy”, “To Pack”, “To Fix – Old House”, “To Fix – New House”, “Contact Info”, etc. (but yes, borrowing ideas liberally from those other online sites) was the best tool to keep track of all the various elements of our move.

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – Home Inspection (December 2004)

As part of the process of selling our house, we dug through a box of old files we’ve kept over the years – manuals for appliances, receipts for things we’ve bought for the house, and the original home inspection report we got for our house in 2004.

One of the things that stood out having done this in 2004 and again in 2019 is how much technology has influenced the process – in 2004, our home inspector showed up with a thick pre-printed binder and he went through filling out sections in provided spaces as he worked through electrical, plumbing, etc.

In 2019, our home inspector showed up with a laptop, a portable colour printer, and a digital camera.  (I think) he used a web site that is made specifically for home inspectors to create a thin but insightful custom binder filled with as some prepared information but also had unlimited room for custom comments.  He also inserted annotated photos of some of the things he found *and* after the inspection, he sent us a link to a web site where we could walk through these issues individually and sort of rank them “Deal with Immediately”, “Not Urgent” or whatever then create a custom report online and/or in print that we could use.