Normally I’d Save A Post Like This For Music Monday…

…but this feels unique enough to deserve a stand-alone post:

 

Saturday Snap – Family (Un)Literacy Night: Some Highlights

Walked Sasha over to her school’s Family Literacy Night earlier this week and we didn’t even read one story at the “Reading Activity Station” but we sure had fun playing with the stuffed animals and telling stories using crazy voices.

One mom sort of glared at us goofing around and I was this close to pulling out my “I’m a Professional Librarian, ma’am!” card!

Other highlights:
* Ended up sitting by our local MLA at one station making small talk while I kept thinking “I wonder if he remembers me protesting library cuts at his constituency office?”

* I got like 6/10 out of the “Identify The Grain” station and I’m pretty embarrassed to admit I’m (technically) from a farm background. 🙁   (To be fair, Sasha did even worse than me guessing things like “Corn Flakes?” and “Glitter Beads?” for some of the jars of grains!)

* Different parenting styles – at the “Recycle/Compost/Trash” display, I let Sasha pick her answers completely unaided and she gets a couple wrong – egg shells *can* be composted (mom and dad throw them out – sorry!) and (most) toys *cannot* be recycled (I think Sasha was thinking of giving them away more than “recycling”).  One other parent basically gave their much older kid through every answer without asking the kid their thoughts/opinions and I kept thinking “Hey, you’re the kid who’ll show up at my library with your mom in ten years with mom “helping” you do your English 101 homework.”)

* Like her dad, Sasha’s a bit of a non-conformist.  At the “Make a Healthy Picnic Lunch for $25” station, Sasha decides we need a blanket (not on the menu) and was certain it cost $5.  That makes the rest of our picnic lunch go over budget but the woman overseeing the station buys my “I find $1.50 in coins in my vehicle’s console” so we can still get our passport stamped.  Whew!

* One soft-spoken young staffer is trying to draw attention near the end of the event to the door prize draw but no one is listening so I decide to yell out “QUIET!” which does get the desired effect (though I tend to overthink things and spend the walk home feeling guilty I didn’t yell “QUIET…PLEASE!” 😉

* They gave every kid who attended a backpack on the way out which is a great idea until you realise the thought of fifty kids having the same backpack at school, even if you write their name in it somewhere, is a total nightmare!!!


Friday Fun Link – Family Man Retires at 39

Tim works at RPL (I know “works at RPL” conflicts with the title of this post but he works here in the same way that a retired 65 year old might pick up a part-time job at a local retailer to keep busy/do something they enjoy/make some “mad money” to supplement their savings.)

Anyhow, a fascinating story…

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – Readers Are Leaders (March 2014)

Speaking of the importance of being surrounded by books from an early age

Bell Let’s Talk – Counterpoint

Wednesday was Bell Media’s “Let’s Talk” Day which promotes removing the stigma around mental health by talking about it.

While the idea behind it is a good and admirable one, there are also some things that make it quite problematic, especially when its a private corporation rather than  government or non-profits working in that area taking the lead.

Here’s a few:

From SL on FB…

#letstalk

I am not one to post personal issues about mental health but I can talk about public policy choices.

1 in 5 Canadians will experience a mental health or addictions (MHA) challenge and may require a range of services in the hospital and the community.

Canada spends less on mental health compared with most OECD countries. Inside of that already depressing context, Saskatchewan spends less per capita than any other province. In some cases provinces spend twice per capita what SK spends.

Mental health makes up five percent of Saskatchewan’s total health budget. Meanwhile, suicide deaths among First Nations people in Saskatchewan is 4.3 times higher than non-First Nations people.

Let’s talk?

We can, and must, do better.

From AR…

#BellLetsNationalizeYou
My view has not changed from last year, regarding this cynical “Bell Let’s Talk” campaign, which is nothing more than the commodification of mental health by a parasitic private telecom company practicing its grotesque capitalistic function. If anything, I am now even more just thoroughly disgusted by it. Proper access to mental health care is a cause that activists everywhere are working every single day to try to achieve. So, no – Bell Canada doesn’t get any credit for essentially making money off of something activists are doing every single day for free. Caring about mental health shouldn’t be – and it isn’t – confined to some time period defined by a marketing gimmick deployed by a private corporation.

The only thing this “campaign” does is convince me, year after year that “oh yeah. It’s that time of year to really hammer home the notion that we need to nationalize not just this parasitic corporation, but telecommunications in Canada, in general”. It isn’t about mental health care at all, as most of us think about improving mental health care access every single day. So, let’s use Bell Canada’s attempt to profit off of human suffering as, instead, a rallying cry to keep trying to nationalize them.

Just to be clear: this is not at all directed at the well-meaning people who are passing around the #BellLetsTalk message. You people are beautiful people who clearly only want to be part of the solution:

I am honestly in absolute awe at the fact that we have to rely on a corporation sloganeering & using mental health as a marketing gimmick rather than just pursuing the most OBVIOUS solution and just effing FUNDING and legislating mental health care and making actual access easier.
This corporatization of action and progress on mental health care is fetishizing it to the point where it has become meaninglessly ritualistic, year after year.

Heck, a part of properly funding mental health care and breaking down barriers and stigma involves not just spending on the actual point-of-use facets of mental health care, but spending our collective tax dollars on education and outreach campaigns that exist for no other reason than to change the narratives and prevailing attitudes out there regarding mental health (I.E: breaking down barriers and stigma..etc).
In tandem, we simply cannot pretend that mental health exists in a vacuum and is divorced from poverty.

Inequality, economic precariousness and the resulting isolation and desperation are major factors that – if left unaddressed – will leave us in a self-perpetuating cycle of trying to deal with the symptoms of the issue while ignoring deeper reasons for why it’s happening. These aforementioned factors, by the way, are ALL things that Bell is complicit in. Don’t believe me? Just look at how they treat their own employees (firing them for asking for, no joke, MENTAL HEALTH LEAVE along with the general awful labour practices and behaviour that are characteristic of corporations everywhere).

But nooooo, let’s just leave it up to a corporation, whose actual motivation and raison d’ĂȘtre is not mental health care, but profitability.

Let’s talk about that…

“Losing My Religion” – The Story Behind the Song

A bit more about the song I featured in yesterday’s “Music Monday” post

Music Monday – “Every whisper/Of every waking hour I’m/Choosing my confessions”

Recommended by a patron at my branch…

Losing My Religion” – Lacuna Coil

It’s Okay To Have Too Many Books, In Fact, It May Be Beneficial

After a lifetime as a reader, studying English in undergrad, working with book publishers and writers across two provinces, attending book & publishing conferences where advanced reading copies are given out freely, even hitting way too many charity book sales and garage sales in my life, I suspect I own roughly a thousand books.

How many books is that?

Well, the picture above is roughly half the books I own. 😼

Enough books that when we moved, the weight of the book boxes frontloaded in our shipping container almost made it so the driver couldn’t unload it properly (something he said he hadn’t seen in three years of doing that job!)

Marie Kondo gets a lot of attention these days for her KonMari decluttering techniques including her recommendation to “only keep items that you give you joy when you hold them in your hands” with her recommendation that you should own ~30 books at max.

No surprise that I happen to think that’s bullshit. 🙂

There is loads of research saying that being surrounded by books, *even if you don’t read them*, has positive benefits.

One such study found that children who grew up in homes with between 80 and 350 books showed improved literacy, numeracy, and information communication technology skills as adults. Exposure to books, the researchers suggested, boosts these cognitive abilities by making reading a part of life’s routines and practices.

Marie Kondo’s philosophy is Japanese but there’s a corresponding Japanese philosophy of surrounding yourself with books – tsundoku – as a way of reminding yourself of all the things you don’t know.

This concept is also known as an “anti-library” – a collection of books you know you’ll never have time to read but which reflects your desire to know and learn and grow.

Taleb laid out the concept of the antilibrary in his best-selling bookThe Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable. He starts with a discussion of the prolific author and scholar Umberto Eco, whose personal library housed a staggering 30,000 books.

When Eco hosted visitors, many would marvel at the size of his library and assumed it represented the host’s knowledge — which, make no mistake, was expansive. But a few savvy visitors realized the truth: Eco’s library wasn’t voluminous because he had read so much; it was voluminous because he desired to read so much more.

Eco stated as much. Doing a back-of-the-envelope calculation, he found he could only read about 25,200 books if he read one book a day, every day, between the ages of ten and eighty. A “trifle,” he laments, compared to the million books available at any good library.

So yes, it probably seems strange to own so many books, doubly so when I work in a public library and can walk out with pretty much any book I want to read any day.  But, at least for the time being, I’m very happy to have a house full of books!

(As shown in the picture above, it’s a separate entry about my choice to keep using my cheap “college-style” bookshelves made of shelving boards and bricks, even after we recently moved into a beautiful new house.  But yes, after pricing out both custom bookshelves (!!) and even IKEA solutions (!), I decided that using the shelves I already owned and that were cheap but functional was the best way to go – at least in our basement den where they’ll be less visible.  I do have nicer shelves in our upstairs office and the bedrooms for instance!)

I linked to a good article above the pull quote above but the whole thing is so good, I’m going to quote more of it…

Drawing from Eco’s example, Taleb deduces:

“Read books are far less valuable than unread ones. [Your] library should contain as much of what you do not know as your financial means, mortgage rates, and the currently tight real-estate market allows you to put there. You will accumulate more knowledge and more books as you grow older, and the growing number of unread books on the shelves will look at you menacingly. Indeed, the more you know, the larger the rows of unread books. Let us call this collection of unread books an antilibrary. [Emphasis original]”

Maria Popova, whose post at Brain Pickings summarizes Taleb’s argument beautifully, notes that our tendency is to overestimate the value of what we know, while underestimating the value of what we don’t know. Taleb’s antilibrary flips this tendency on its head.

The antilibrary’s value stems from how it challenges our self-estimation by providing a constant, niggling reminder of all we don’t know. The titles lining my own home remind me that I know little to nothing about cryptography, the evolution of feathers, Italian folklore, illicit drug use in the Third Reich, and whatever entomophagy is. (Don’t spoil it; I want to be surprised.)

“We tend to treat our knowledge as personal property to be protected and defended,” Taleb writes. “It is an ornament that allows us to rise in the pecking order. So this tendency to offend Eco’s library sensibility by focusing on the known is a human bias that extends to our mental operations.”

These selves of unexplored ideas propel us to continue reading, continue learning, and never be comfortable that we know enough. Jessica Stillman calls this realization intellectual humility.

People who lack this intellectual humility — those without a yearning to acquire new books or visit their local library — may enjoy a sense of pride at having conquered their personal collection, but such a library provides all the use of a wall-mounted trophy. It becomes an “ego-booting appendage” for decoration alone. Not a living, growing resource we can learn from until we are 80 — and, if we are lucky, a few years beyond.

Saturday Snap – Healthy Snack?

When you wake up from a nap and see your daughter has left you a healthy snack consisting of…a fruit roll-up and a Werther’s candy. 🙂

Friday Fun Link – #DollyParton Challenge (Okay, I’ll Play)