Throwback Thursday – #tbt – How Did I Get Here? – #8 – Smalltown Saskatchewan

My standard line about farming is that, for whatever reason, I grew up more passionate about books than barley and more interested in computers than combines.

With that said, I feel very fortunate that I grew up in a rural community as part of a farming family.

I also managed to luck into getting the best of both worlds – our farm had been in our family since my great-great-grandparents settled it in 1883 but we lived in a house in town for most of my life.

This meant I got exposure to farm life and its advantages (everything from learning how to drive at a very early age to harvest suppers in the field to a more general understanding and appreciation of the natural world) but I also got to live in town and enjoy all of its advantages as well (being able to play with friends and participate in extracurricular activities in a way that was harder for my friends who lived on farms to do, having easy access to everything from grocery stores to pool halls to video rental stores.)

It’s a bit of cliche that rural life is rustic and idyllic but I think there’s some truth to that (or at least there was for me.)  Spending the entire day outside playing with friends and only going home for supper; knowing all your neighbours; the strong sense of community and volunteer spirit.

Where we lived, I was able to walk out the back door and go right on to the town’s golf course, something you simply can’t do in the city (though my hometown’s golf course still had sand greens at the time but who’s complaining?)  I lived one block from our high school so could sleep in late and still make final bell (Pace is following my example now as we live one block from his elementary school!)

I don’t know – I’m struggling a bit to write about how deeply I feel that rural upbringing influenced me (and wondering if it’s 100% the rural influence or was it also the time period or other factors?  For example, does a kid growing up in Indian Head today have similar freedoms and experiences? Probably not.)

But speaking of freedoms, it wasn’t all perfect either – as I alluded to earlier, mine was but I know not everyone’s experience was idyllic.  One of my classmates literally watched his dad shoot himself in the chest with a shotgun on Christmas Eve.  And sometimes that freedom led to opportunities to do stupid things that kids in the city (with a greater police presence or just a presence of adults generally) might not do.

There’s one specific thing we did, usually under the influence of alcohol, that years later, led to the death of one young woman when her and her friends did the same thing and I think that it’s as much luck as anything else that I didn’t die from drunk driving or drunk roof riding or drunk elevator climbing or drunk gopher hunting.  (Notice a theme?)

But again, this blog series isn’t supposed to be what made me good or made me perfect – it’s the mixture of good, bad and random that made me who I am.

And growing up in rural Saskatchewan is a huge part of who I am, even having now lived in cities for the majority of my life.  But nothing will change how formative those first seventeen years of my life in a small town truly were.

Grit & Glory: Celebrating 40 Years of the Edmonton Oilers


I saw this book in my library today and had a good chuckle.

I mean, the Oilers sucked for the first couple years of their existence, they sucked for the last decade plus and they have as many sub-.500% seasons as ones where they’ve won more than they’ve lost.

So, at best, it’s maybe 20 years to celebrate, not 40.  And in terms of true glory, that period lasted for about 5-7 years in the mid-1980’s when they won five Stanley Cups in seven years.  So that’s a misleading title as their performance has been more shit grit than glory in the Oilers’ overall history.

Plus when I saw the author’s name, I thought there’s no way that Lorna Schultz Nicholson could be related to Bob Nicholson, the Oiler’s current Vice-President of Hockey Operations.

But of course the Oilers, who are notorious for their “Old Boys Club” mentality and nepotism in giving management and coaching positions to anyone connected to the Oilers glory years, would have their haliographic anniversary book written by the wife of their current senior Vice-President of Hockey Operations.

E=NG!

Bora Bora – St. Regis Overwater Villa Tour

I write a lot on this blog about resorts I’ve visited.

And now, for something a bit different, a resort I’ll likely never get to visit…

Music Monday – “The world’s in trouble/There’s no communication/And everyone can say what they want to say/It never gets better anyway”

Bad Reputation” – Joan Jett

WWE Makes History At Wrestlemania 35

Tonight’s Wrestlemania 35 was the first to have a main event featuring women wrestlers – Ronda Rousey who was a former star in UFC, Charlotte Flair who is the daughter of one of the greatest wrestlers of all-time and an accomplished athlete in her own right, and Becky Lynch who is the ultimate underdog but has had a “Stone Cold” Steve Austin-like rise to become of the single most popular wrestler currently in the WWE, male or female.

Here’s a clip that explains how we got to this point (at least recently – this has arguably been coming since the first Wrestlemania which featured a Hulk Hogan match in the final match on the card but also had another feature match – which Wikipedia even bills as a co-main event – involving Wendy Richter and Lelani Kai.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=14vXq3XNrUc

Saturday Snap – Calling Lakes Road Trip

After running Grandpa and Grandma out to Indian Head after they returned from a month in Australia/New Zealand, Sasha and I decided to have a little adventure of our own by taking the scenic route home.

We stopped at the family farm where Sasha got to drive down the lane (watch the road!!!)…

…meet a new friend…

…and wrestle with the immortal question of what was tougher for her great-grandparents – living without microwaves or without YouTube?


Then on to the Katepwa lookout point…

…followed by Katepwa Beach to throw rocks at the still-frozen ice.


A quick stop at the Lebret grocery for treats (so quick I forgot to take a picture!) then on to Fort Qu’Appelle for groceries for supper and ideas for a cake for her upcoming birthday (and yes, you’ll see *more* treats on that conveyor – road trips are all about the food!)


Finally, home to Regina bypassing Echo Provincial Park where we had a seasonal site a couple years ago, figuring at least one of us wouldn’t be up to the hike in to our old campsite if the gates were still locked on this cold April day! 😉

Friday Fun Link – Quarter Horse Cam

Picked up a book on Mexican drug cartels and ended up learning a lot about American quarter horses! 🙂

 

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – How Did I Get Here? – #7 – Not-For-Profit Cultural Sector

Like a lot of people who convocate with a Bachelor’s degree, the biggest question is “Now what?”

In 1996, I had an expensive English degree, a specialization in creative writing, and not a lot of other options.  (The other big question you get asked, especially with an English degree is: “Are you going to be a teacher?”  Answer: “No, I’m not going to be a teacher…maybe?”)

After struggling to find work (including turning down a door-to-door sales job because I would have to wear a tie!), I got accepted to a work placement program through the University for unemployed/underemployed Arts Grads (which I always refer to as being like a “co-op program for Arts students”.)

The program gave us one month of job training on skills that I may have needed (tips for interviewing and having a professional review our resumes and cover letters) and things I probably didn’t (the basics of using a computer!)  As part of the program, they also offered funding for a three month work placement via a coordinator who interviewed you and would try to find work in an area of interest.

I said that with an English degree, I was interested in areas like publishing, media, marketing.  They came back with two placements that I was interested in – helping to research a book and an organization called the Saskatchewan Publishers Group which I didn’t know much about but which worked with the province’s book publishers.

I applied for and was offered both jobs but then had to make a tough decision.  The appeal of having my name anywhere near a book, even as a researcher, appealed greatly but I remember thinking that working with a bunch of book publishers would probably increase my chances of getting a book of my own published even more.  (Er, spoiler alert: twenty years later and still no book-length publication to my name!) 😉

I went to work for the Sask Publishers Group designing their first web site for two-thirds of my time and I spent 1/3 of my time working with another non-profit down the hall, the Saskatchewan Library Association, updating and improving their existing web site.  During this contract, I was given opportunities to do so much more than the web site work – everything from learning about board meetings to the basics of bookkeeping to writing newsletters and more.

My term was coming to an end but my boss (who I still consider one of the best bosses I ever had) was a wizard at writing grants and finding funding.  She got a grant from the Cultural Human Resources Council to keep me on for another six months where I did a lot of work including designing web sites for some of our member publishers and even hung out my shingle briefly offering freelance web design services to other cultural non-profits and publishers outside the province I’d met through my SPG connections.  After that, she found another grant.  Then my funding ran out but due to my work at the SPG, I got a summer contract with SPG’s sister organization, the Saskatchewan Motion Picture Industry Association (SMPIA).  Then there may have been one-two other short contracts with other cultural non-profits I’m forgetting (maybe this is when I ended up doing a lot more freelance web design work plus some editing and writing projects?) but ultimately, the SPG (which had two co-Executive Directors with only one other contract employee on a different work placement program) had one executive director leave which allowed them to restructure leaving my favourite boss of all-time and a newly created position of “Marketing and Technology Officer” (and, typical of non-profit world, I think I even had a hand in creating the title of a position that was basically created for me!)

I stayed at the SPG for about four years and learned so much about so much – since it was a small, grant-dependent organization without a lot of staffing or resources, you had to do it all yourself.  You were the Marketing department.  You were the Maintenance department.  You were the IT department.  You were the HR department (whenever we hired, my boss let me sit in on interviews recognizing that being able to do the job was only 50% of hiring while “fitting in with existing team” was also 50% of hiring – one of many philosophies I learned at the SPG that I’ve carried with me to this day.)

When Shea graduated from her nursing program and wanted to work in Alberta, the thought of leaving the SPG almost led to us breaking up (I enjoyed the job that much!) but the SPG, which spoiled me with some of the best perks and benefits I’ve ever enjoyed, agreed to a non-binding one-year leave of absence – I could choose to return after a year but if things worked out in Calgary, I wouldn’t be required to come back.

I went to Calgary and after looking for work for a while, I lucked into work with a very similar organization, the Writers Guild of Alberta where I did many of the same things I did for the SPG – just serving writers instead of publishers.  And instead of returning to the SPG, I stayed with the WGA for three and a half years.

In all, I spent nearly a decade in the cultural non-profit sector and had so many amazing experiences, met so many fascinating people (name drop – who else has Giller Award winner, Will Ferguson, pop in their office to drop off a special Australian edition of one of his books for a contest you’re running?) and learned so much useful information.

I often wonder how my life would’ve been different if I’d chosen a different path or went to library school earlier or even if I’d become a teacher.  But every time I do, I have very few regrets about the career path (and really, the life path – I’m still involved in publishing to this day as a board member for Coteau books) I chose.

 

A Viral Proposal Video

Did I ever post this?  It’s a classic…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYh9DCN8ads

 

Regina’s Heritage Classic Tickets Confirmed! #GoFlamesGo