I’ve been thinking about actions vs. words a lot lately.
One of the things that really brought home this important distinction was when I had to leave the Regent Place branch of Regina Public Library after eight years as Branch Head following a re-org of supervisors and managers.
It was a pretty emotional time and I remember gathering with a bunch of the staff on one of my last days to chat and reminisce.
“You know, I hope you guys know that when I thanked you for all your work as we walked to our cars at the end of every shift, I meant it!”
“We know you meant it, Jason” one staff member replied. “Do you know why? Because you backed up your words with actions – with how you treated us, with how you led the branch, with how you related to the customers.”
I said to a colleague recently that once you start seeing things in terms of actions instead of words, you can’t unsee them.
A few examples:
- People who have pronouns in their email sig file but misgender people repeatedly.
- Bosses who thank “the team” for their hard work then go to the bargaining table and try to make working conditions or pay worse for that same hard-working team.
- Land acknowledgements read by people wearing mass produced orange t-shirts which aren’t designed by Indigenous artists or purchased from Indigenous-owned businesses.
- Being lectured about being responsible for the municipal tax dollar but then using Amazon as a major supplier instead of spending local to support the businesses and workers whose taxes keep the library funded.
- Preaching customer service but then not providing detailed, sufficient training to ensure employees are in a position to deliver that strong customer service
Those are a few quick examples off the top of my head. And I’m not saying I’m perfect in any or all of these areas (far from it!) or that I don’t do say and do things performatively as well. But I struggle with it.
Heck, in some ways, some might argue that the whole act of having a blog (“hey, come listen to what I have to say!”) is performative in a way.
Anyhow, “actions, not words” – it’s an important way to look at the world and, like I told my colleague, once you start seeing the world through that lens, it’s hard to not notice all the other false or hypocritical or performative actions that happen.
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