Throwback Thursday – #tbt – How Did I Get Here? – #10 – Shea

Most couples meet through friends or dating sites or at church or the bar.  The story of how Shea and I met is a bit more random.

Her parents were at a funeral and happened to be talking to someone from my hometown.  They mentioned their daughter was starting university in the fall and needed a place to stay.

The person said they knew of two families from my hometown that owned condos and rented rooms.  One was owned by a couple who were farmers and teachers (and coincidentally, their son was a good friend of mine and I had actually lived in their condo first before my parents decided to follow their lead and buy a condo that my sister and I could live in while we were in University, renting out the extra rooms to help pay the mortgage.)

The other condo they knew about was owned by a farmer and a nurse.  That was my parents and since Shea was going to be studying to be a nurse, they decided to call us first.

I’m not sure if it was the first day they came to see the condo or move her in but they still joke about me sitting on the couch, and in a very “college” moment, eating macaroni and tomatoes right from the pot, possibly even offering her parents some! 🙂

Shea moved in in 1997 which means I’ve known her for 19 years, nearly half of my life, but we obviously didn’t start dating right away and our relationship was strictly platonic.

There’s a bit of a soap opera part in here that led to us dating that I’m not going to get into but at any rate, we started dating a year or so after she moved into the condo (I make the totally inappropriate joke that we started dating after she couldn’t pay the rent one month but the reality is that I’m always happy that we started our relationship as friends – going to movies, playing cards, eating meals together – and it grew from there.)

Our dating was sort of on the down low at first (kids today have a different term for it – “Friends with Benefits”!) with her parents still asking “When did you start dating?” occasionally and my mom corralling me at lunch one day to ask if I was dating my roommate which I denied even though it was basically true.

Our relationship continued to solidify and grow though we moved at a pretty slow pace (hmm, maybe that’s what inspired the name of our son?).

Shea convocated from nursing in 2001 and wanted to move to Alberta for a bit to have the experience of living in a different province/bigger city.  We had some serious discussions about our relationship at that point since I was very happy in Saskatchewan.  But luckily for Pace and Sasha, we ended up moving to Calgary together and ended up staying there for three and a half years.

While living in Calgary, we got engaged at Fairmont Hot Springs in 2002 and married in Mexico in 2003.  We moved back to Saskatchewan eventually and had Pace in 2007 then Sasha came along in 2013.

We’re recently passed fifteen years of marriage and for the most part, it’s been pretty good.  What works well is that we’re of a similar mind on the big picture stuff – politics, religion, finances, etc. (not to mention we both work in caring professions which shows a similarity in personalities as well).  But we also complement each other well.  Shea’s the detail-oriented, logical planner and I’m the big picture dreamer; she tends to keep things serious and on track, I tend to be goofy and prone to spontaneity.  To co-opt the popular metaphor, she’s the destination and I’m the journey.

After getting married on the beach in Mexico in March 2003, we had a reception in Shea’s small hometown for a couple hundred friends and family who couldn’t join us in Mexico.

Neither Shea nor I are huge dancers and were sort of dreading the obligatory “first dance”.  While reading about weddings online, I’d come across the idea of a “removal dance” instead of a “first dance”.

The idea is that you invite all married couples to join you on the dance floor.  The DJ plays a song (I had a perfect one in mind where each verse details the growing depth of a couple’s relationship through old age with a beautiful melody and a darkly realistic lyric) and after each verse, your MC asks people who’ve been married “less than one year”, “less than five years”, less than ten years” and so on to leave the dance floor.

(And holy shit, until reading about this song on Song Meanings, I’d *never* realised that the conceit of starting each verse with “Line One is the time…”, “Line Two is the time…” had a double meaning as he’s not just describing the start of a verse in the song which is how I’d always heard it but also how each verse captures something that causes wrinkles (lines) to appear over time!  So much for my English degree helping me learn to analyse texts!)

We hadn’t planned it out ahead of time but Shea and I left at the first announcement (along with a couple septuagenarians who’d remarried late in life but had only been married to each other less than a year!) then stood on the edge of the dance floor watching other couples dancing – friends who’d married a few years before us and whose weddings we’d attended, cousins and gradually older aunts and uncles, our respective parents, and others in the crowd.

Again, we hadn’t planned it this way but it worked out perfectly when the final verse was introduced by our MC saying “Could everyone married forty years or less leave the dance floor” and it emptied except one long-time couple from Shea’s side and one long-time couple from my side.  (Quick note – I like how many weddings now post signs saying “Take any chair – we’re not about sides” which is a positive change from the old way of thinking of each family having a “side” of the hall or church or whatever.)  We went back on the dance floor and joined the two longest lasting couples at our reception to finish the dance together in a big circle.

Life will bring many joys, much sadness and the odd curveball but here’s hoping that even if we’re not big dancers, Shea and I are the last ones dancing at some young couple’s wedding someday a few decades in the future!

 

The Most Amazing End to a Hockey Game I’ve Ever Seen?

The Flames are out but I’m still watching NHL playoffs, especially with a bunch of games going to game seven and/or overtime which is always exciting.

But I don’t think I’ve ever seen a sequence like the one that happened last night – Vegas Golden Knights leading the San Jose Sharks 3-0 with about ten minutes left in the third period.  Normally, that’s game over.  But after a post-faceoff cross-check puts the Shark captain off-balance and then a different Knight collides with him, leading to a freak injury for the Sharks’ captain, the Knights player who gave the initial cross-check gets a 5-minute major and is tossed from the game.

In the ensuing power play, the Sharks rally to score a record-tying FOUR powerplay goals on one penalty not only catching the Knights but passing them.

There’s now maybe four or five minutes left but after a near total collapse, the Knights press back.  Finally, with less than a minute remaining, the Knights score to tie the game which leads to overtime.

Then, after an edge-of-your-seat, back-and-forth overtime, just as the extra period is nearing its end, an unheralded Sharks player who’s not played much so still has fuel in his tank, takes a pass and skates in to score and win the game.

Immediately there was lots of controversy about the penalty call – was it a reactionary call because of the injury?  Do refs “manage” the game with how they choose to call/not call penalties (that post-face-off cross-check is a common move and it was only because of the injury that the major was assessed.  And does it matter that the cross check didn’t directly cause the injury, only indirectly?  On some level, did the refs think a harsher penalty would help control a heated game where the Sharks captain was just taken off injured?  And that it wouldn’t have such a significant outcome since it’s still incredibly rare to score 3+ powerplay goals on a 5-minute power play.  Put it this way – the average team scores on about 20% of their power plays, the Sharks scored at an 80% rate on this single power play.) And ultimately, can any series hinge so much on one play or one penalty?  The Knights have to own that they collapsed – letting in so many goals but also letting go of a 3-1 lead in the series generally plus they didn’t capitalize on a (make-up?) call that put them on the power play late in the game, let alone score in overtime?

For me, I think the ultimate issue is that refs in the NHL are as inconsistent as in any sport in the world.  Rules are applied differently at the start and end of the season and at the start and end of the game, they’re applied different in regular time and overtime, they’re applied differently if players are injured or not (that’s probably understandable to some degree), they seem to be applied differently depending on which teams are playing or sometimes which players are involved (“reputation” calls).  And most egregiously, there appears to be a different set of rules in the regular season and playoffs where hockey’s old-school, conservative culture demands that refs “let them play” and so players can slash, hack, trip, punch and yes, cross-check, with very little risk of being penalized.

Anyhow, watch this…

…and here’s some commentary by The Hockey Guy:

Finally, this…

 

Flames Flame Out: 10 Thoughts on An Early Exit

After their best season in a generation and winning the Western Conference, I was super-stoked for a long playoff run by my Calgary Flames.

Unfortunately, they flamed out in the first round losing to the 8th seed Colorado Avalanche in five games, shutting out the Avalanche in the first game but then losing four in a row.

(Believe it or not, the Flames actually did better than the Tampa Bay Lightning who finished as the overall top team in the regular season but were bounced in four straight games by the 8th seed in their conference, the Columbus Blue Jackets.)

Now that a few days have passed, here’s a few thoughts:

  1. A Tale of Two Seasons – Regular and Playoffs
    The Flames (and Lightning) dominated the regular season but lost to teams who had been in playoff mode for a month already having had to battle to gain that last playoff berth right until the end of the season whereas the Flames and Lightning, having clinched a playoff spot a month ago, were probably coasting a bit.  In an age of parity, that’s not a good thing.
  2. A Game of Inches
    Momentum is a nebulous thing but the Flames, who dominated the third period in the regular season more than any other team, ended up having two of their four loses come when they gave up a lead within the last three minutes of the game.
  3. Flames Best Players Are Invisible
    The Flames had five players hit the 70-point plateau (maybe unequalled in the NHL this season?) yet in the heavier, closer checking of the playoffs, Gaudreau, Monahan, Lindholm, Tkachuk and even Norris Trophy favourite, Mark Giordano were all but invisible.
  4. Redemption of Mike Smith
    Ironically, the Flames’ biggest worry going into the playoffs wasn’t their skaters but goaltending.  Mike Smith had been inconsistent all season and was known for letting in easy goals at bad moments in the regular season (bringing back memories of Brian Elliott whose mistakes basically lost the Flames their first-round series a couple years ago.)  The Flames had arguably played much better in front of backup David Rittich who was becoming the de facto starter but the coaching staff went with the competitive veteran with playoff experience in Smith and he rewarded their faith with a strong performance even setting NHL records for not just one but two games of 50+ shots against in a single playoff series.
  5. James Neal 
    The Flames signed perennial 20-goal scorer, James Neal, as a highly desirable free agent this year.  But perhaps playing in two Stanley Cup finals in a row – first with Pittsburgh and again with Vegas last year – left little in his tank.  All year, he was criticized and all year, others defended him – “it’s a new team – he’ll find his game”, “the season’s half over but given his history, he won’t be denied”, “okay, regular season over but he’s made for the playoffs.”  Except he wasn’t and he ended up with the humiliation of being a healthy scratch in Game Five in an attempt to shake up the team.
  6. Coaching
    Bill Peters was a bit of an unknown quantity as a newly hired Flames coach after some unheralded time in Carolina.  But he led the Flames to an amazing finish, is in consideration for Coach of the Year honours, and was celebrated for making the right moves at the right time all year long – whether forward, defense, goalies, call-ups or whatever.  But sadly, in the playoffs, he seemed to get schooled.  When Smith was shitting the bed in Game Two, why not put Rittich in for a period just to see how he (and the team) respond?  Why wait so long to bench Neal or bring in Valimaki?  Why not give other young forwards an opportunity to draw in and bring some energy that wasn’t coming from veterans?  I also wonder why teams don’t take the opportunity to mix up lines more during the regular season, even when things are going well, to see if that will provide different chemistry and balance?  For example, Sam Bennett who had an average regular season but was probably the Flames’ best player in the playoffs was elevated to the top line in Game Five when things were “do or die”.  What if he’d been put on the first line during the regular season a bit, just to see how he might perform instead of going in blind?
  7. Nathan MacKinnon
    After being drafted first overall in 2013, he was seen as, not exactly a bust, but not a generational talent like so many other first overall talents get branded with.  But MacKinnon simply dominated the series and is now being called one of the Top 5 (if not Top 3) players in the league, at least in part by his performance in this single series.
  8. At Least We’re Not The Oilers?
    It took approximately seven minutes after the game ended for my Calgary-living, Edmonton Oiler-loving cousin to send myself and my Edmonton-living, Calgary Flame-loving cousin chirpy messages.  It devolved into the usual arguments back and forth between Flames and Oiler fans – the Flames have made playoffs more lately but the Oilers have won more series in total, Oilers have a record for playoff futility only making the post-season once in the last twelve years but their 1983-84 edition was voted Best NHL team of all-time, they’ve won five Stanley Cups to the Flames single one but the Oilers have also had a similar number of #1 draft picks (meaning their team was one of the worst in the NHL) while the Flames have never picked in the Top 5 in their history.  On and on.
  9. Adversity Builds For Future Success?
    People point out that the Flames had to lose in the 1986 playoff run to be able to win in 1989, the Oilers had to lose to the Islanders before they could win, the Capitals were perennial playoff chokers until last year when they weren’t and so on.  The Flames have a great, dynamic young team.  Whether they can convert that into playoff success in future remains to be seen but here’s hoping.
  10. The Only Sport With Two Rulebooks
    On one hand, I’m never a fan of blaming refs as I do believe they do their best to be unbiased, in a fast-paced environment and even the odd bad/wrong call should be negated over the course of an entire game.  But it’s also frustrating that hockey is the only sport in the world where there seems to be one set of rules in the regular season and then, those are often ignored in the post-season in favour of “letting them play” or “not influencing the game” (ironically, if you let things that should be penalties go, you *are* influencing the game.)  In my dream world, penalties would be called consistently whether it’s regular season or playoffs, first or third period, regular time or overtime, a Canadian team or an American team, if a player is “whining” or “being respectful”.  Unfortunately, right now, that’s exactly what it is – a dream.  (And don’t get me started on the lack of clarity on goaltender interference, not just in playoffs but in the regular season as well.)

This *was* a penalty against the Flames at a critical point in the game putting them down by two players for two minutes…

This was *not* a penalty against the Avalanche when Johnny Gaudreau was constantly hooked, slashed and held to slow down someone who is otherwise one of the most dominant players in the game (at least when the rules are enforced as written)…

Music Monday – “You feed your addiction/With your crystal meth/And I plea for your life/As it takes you to your death”

Broken Window Serenade” – Whiskey Myers

Why Is Easter A Moving Target?

There’s an explanation why the date of Easter moves around but yeah, if it’s supposed to commemorate the day Jesus was resurrected, you’d think that would be not a lot of room for debate.

Anyhow, I’ll put myself in the camp of people who prefer it in late April instead of March.

Hoppy Easter!

Saturday Snap – Rain Beatles Tribute in #yqr #raintribute

As a huge Beatles fan, I really enjoyed the “Rain: A Tribute To The Beatles” show earlier this week, especially since they played much of the Abbey Road album (which is my favourite Beatles album) in this version of their ongoing touring show.

Friday Fun Link – The NHL’s Best Team Was Swept in Four Games…

..which makes the fact that the NHL’s second-best team, the Calgary Flames, lost in *five* games after a disastrous performance tonight only slightly less painful.

I guess I’ll always have the regular season. 🙁

Throwback Thursday – #tbt – How Did I Get Here? – #9 – Politics

 

When I was a kid, my single most disliked show on television was “Question Period“.

It was on CTV, late on Sunday afternoons, and after a weekend of cartoons, Disney specials, movies, pro wrestling and hockey (er, I probably watched too much TV as a kid!), I hated that weekends in my two-channel universe basically ended with a bunch of grey-haired people sitting around talking about stuff I didn’t understand or really care about.

As I got older, I gradually learned more about politics and the impact it had on our daily life.

I still remember a middle years teacher who would painstakingly cut out pictures of politicians from the newspaper and then photocopy these sheets where we would have to identify the various party leaders and other prominent figures (we didn’t worry about municipal politics too much because the odds were that the mayor was one of your classmates’ grandpas and the counselors were people you knew from around town, even if you didn’t know they were counselors or what they did.)

(And for all the concern that teachers indoctrinate school kids to be left-leaning socialists, I don’t remember any strong biases coming through from any teacher I had.  Maybe that’s part of being in a small town or maybe a different era but the only slightly loaded politician position I remember hearing in a classroom was a high school economics teacher telling us how good Free Trade with the US would be for Canada.)

As I mentioned in an earlier post, my parents were politically aware (dad read the newspaper religiously, mom was involved with her union) and regular voters.  But as far as I know, neither ever had a party membership (at least until I started selling memberships to them!) or was active in any other capacity.

My only foray into student politics was running for social convenor in high school (basically the person who plays music at dances and buys the prizes) and I ended up losing to one of the cool guys who had a car with a stereo worth more than the vehicle and a way more extensive cassette tape library.  The other victor went on to become a radio DJ.  Pretty stiff competition, especially when the night before elections, my carefully crafted SNL-inspired skit with the Church Lady and a Dave Letterman “Top 10 List” walk-on got cancelled when my Church Lady got stage fright.  So with only a couple hours to throw something together, I did what 99% of other candidates did and put together an air band (except mine had no rehearsal or flow at all.) Not quite Hillary Clinton levels of blowing an election but close.

Anyhow, I got to University and this is usually where the real indoctrination begins but again, I didn’t get heavily involved in student politics though I did end up being the Luther College Students Association Academic Rep (mostly because no one else wanted to do it).  As it apparently obligatory for all students, I did go to some protests against rising tuition (and was mostly excited to see myself marching on the news that night – wouldn’t mom and dad be surprised!)

As well, there was a heated nomination contest at the time between Liberal lawyer, Tony Merchant and Liberal lawyer, Ralph Goodale (who is still serving to this day so you know who won.)  Merchant tried to bribe influence students to vote for him by offering free pizza but a bunch of people went and ended up eating pizza then voting for Goodale as a joke.  (Funny to think that college hijinxs could’ve helped lead to the election of one of Canada’s longest serving MPs!) 🙂

After convocating, my interest continued to grow as I understood more and more about how politics influenced my daily life in so many ways.  But beyond voting regularly, I was still not engaged in any more meaningful way.

That changed in 2001 when a young guy, who was roughly my age and working at a different non-profit arts organization came by where I was working and encouraged us to take out NDP memberships to vote for Joanne Crofford, a candidate who had very strong credentials in the arts community, as the Sask NDP looked to pick a leader to succeed Roy Romanow. (A race eventually won by Lorne Calvert who went on to become Premier.)

(I don’t know when I knew I was an NDP supporter – after a fairly small “c” conservative upbringing in rural Saskatchewan, there was definitely some influence from the classes I took in University – political science and otherwise – as well as deep discussions I had with classmates and friends.  But I suspect working in the non-profit arts sector probably did as much or more to solidify my emerging political views – about equality, fairness and the role of government in helping people and organizations – than any other experiences up to that point of my life.)

2001 happened to be when Shea and I moved to Calgary so other than voting in the Sask NDP leadership contest, I didn’t have the opportunity to do anything else in the campaign (and am not sure if I would’ve felt inspired enough to do so anyhow as, other than voting, politics still felt like something “distant” that people who weren’t me did.)

Living in Alberta, it was fascinating to experience a place that was so similar to Saskatchewan but so different as well.  This was the height of the Ralph Klein years and his influence loomed large in all aspects of public life.  I was working in the non-profit cultural sector again and money was tighter than it even was in Saskatchewan.  Groups worked overnight shifts in casinos for operational funding (!) which seemed wrong on so many levels.

The city and province definitely had a strong conservative tradition but I was a bit surprised to find an undercurrent of highly educated, strongly entrepreneurial and creative young people that challenged the stereotypes of the city and led to things like Calgary electing North America’s first Muslim mayor and a shocking victory of the NDP after 40+ years of conservative rule (both happened after I left but having lived there, I watched, and still watch, Alberta politics pretty closely.)

Anyhow, this is getting long and I’m sure I’ve covered this in other posts over the years but I finally jumped in with both feet during the 2009 Sask NDP leadership race to succeed Lorne Calvert.

I had watched the enthusiasm and energy of the Obama campaign south of the border in 2008 and wished we had something similar here to get excited about – youth, excitement, technology.

At first, I was disappointed that the NDP seemed to be offering what I thought of as stereotypical politicians – a current MLA, a former Deputy Premier, a former party president.  With that slate, I didn’t see myself buying a membership, let alone getting involved in any significant way.

But then Dr. Ryan Meili announced and though it wasn’t a perfect parallel, I saw similarities to Obama in a candidate who was highly accomplished but chose to work in needy communities, who was drawing a large number of young, tech-savvy, progressive-minded supporters to his campaign, who had written a great book to capture their ideas about the world.  And he was attracting people who didn’t normally get involved in politics which helped me feel welcome too.


Beyond that, since he was running as a long shot, outsider candidate without the same network or history as some of the other insiders, it allowed me to quickly move into more important roles in the campaign than I may have with other candidates.

Ryan ended up beating two more established candidates and only lost to the former Deputy Premier, 55%-45% on the final ballot.  Though I wasn’t a huge fan of the person the party had selected, I stayed involved, going on the Executive of my local constituency and working hard (but ultimately unsuccessfully) to get our local candidate elected with all the usual things you do as a political volunteer – door knocking, helping to plan fundraisers, making telephone calls, selling memberships, attending the annual convention, etc.  All was great learning, all helped me realise that the people who made politics weren’t that different after all – in fact, most were a lot like me.

Since then, my political involvement has ebbed and flowed as my personal life has changed (hi kids!) or based on who certain candidates and leaders were.  But I continue to be more involved than I ever thought I would be (but less involved than those hardy souls who “grew up in orange diapers” or feel an even stronger motivation to work hard for the party no matter what.)

I don’t know when it happened but somewhere along the way, I had the realization that there is nothing that impacts our society more continuously and substantially – for good and for bad – than politics.  Not corporations. Not armies. Not volunteer organizations.  Not going to protests.  Not posting angry missives on Twitter.

That is why I continue to not just vote in every election I can but but choose to be a lot more involved in trying to support a party that I feel best matches my values and aims to create the sort of world I would like to see!

Crash! My History With Technology’s Inevitable End

Had a scary moment this morning when my laptop wouldn’t charge and even crashed a couple times when I tried to get it working.  But luckily it appears that my charging block had simply stopped working and a new one seems to have things running smoothly again (considering I’m still running a 2011-era MacBook Pro that’s had a hard drive upgrade then later, a hard drive failure, a video card replaced, memory upgraded and probably some other work as well, it’s amazing this beast is still running as well as it is.)

Even if you do proper backups, it’s still scary when technology crashes – if your back-up isn’t current or just thinking of all the work it’ll take to rebuild a new laptop/desktop/smartphone to get everything *just* the way you want.

I’ve had a few of these experiences in my life:

  • One of the worst crashes I remember was when one of my early desktop computers crashed.  I had no backups at all and all of my life – university papers, etc. – was on the computer.  I found a local repair shop who were able to recover everything but even though it was a Windows 95 (?) era machine (was that the first that broke out of the earlier 8.3 character limitation of earlier operating systems?), all the files got recovered with abbreviated 8+3 character names and have remained so to this day.
  • Instead of buying a water camera, I stupidly took one of my earliest iPhones with me to Hawaii thinking it’d be great to geo-tag photos automatically, have access to all my apps, etc.  To facilitate this, I’d bought a waterproof case off Amazon and even tested it with some paper wadded up in the enclosure to make sure it worked before we left.  But the very first day we went to a nearby beach, I don’t know if I was rushing or nervous but I managed to not seal the case properly and when I came out of the water and opened the case, a bunch of water poured out.  “Oh oh” I remember thinking.  Worse, the flash was on and wouldn’t go off, the phone kept getting increasingly hotter and I couldn’t get it to even shut off.  We hurried back to our nearby rental condo and I (stupidly) put it in a fridge to try to cool it off since we had no rice handy.  A quick trip to the supermarket to try the rice trick but it was too late (the rice trick works best on a phone that isn’t powered on when it’s submerged in water I later learned.  And now, most phones are pretty water-resistant or even waterproof so it’s less of an issue.)  Anyhow, I was pretty distraught as we had our whole holiday ahead of us to be without my phone and especially its camera (I also had taken my laptop because I’m a huge nerd so I’d still have Internet/computing).  But a quick trip to Costco and I ended up doing what I should’ve done in the first place.  Except water cameras at the time were like $300 here in Canada which is why I hadn’t bought one.  But in Hawaii, they had a giant display of them right inside the door of the exact same model for about $129 (even with exchange, a great deal.)  And it worked out okay in the end – I’d just upgraded my phone a month or so before we left so it was actually covered under my credit card’s purchase insurance even though I hadn’t paid for Apple Care plus I had a backup from right before we left so all I lost was photos from our plane trip over and of course, any photos of fish I took on that first day! 😉
  •  As mentioned above, the video card on my first MacBook Pro went (it’s also gone on the one I’m currently using – apparently a common issue) but that wasn’t a big deal – I ended up buying my current MacBook Pro as a replacement, the place I bought it transferred the old data to the new one since the hard drive was unaffected and off I went.
  • I had another iPhone that started acting up last summer and finally wouldn’t take a charge at all, no matter what I tried.  Luckily, I found a local Apple expert off Kijiji and he was able to fix the issue (can’t remember what it was) using spare parts he had on hand and his own skills.  (This connection proved fruitful as I also used him to replace my video card on my current laptop when it went.)

I’m sure there are tons more as most computers/laptops/smartphones you buy are going to die eventually for one reason or another.  It’s helped that more and more of our info – documents, photos, music – lives in the cloud.  But still – do your backups people!

Best Overall Team in Regular Season, Tampa Bay Lightning, Swept In First Round of Playoffs

I occasionally do a post with my picks at the start of the NHL playoffs.

I forgot to do so this year but it’s probably not worth it as quite a few series aren’t going the way I’d expected – my Calgary Flames are struggling after winning the Western Conference title in the regular season, and worse, the overall best team, The Tampa Bay Lightning, who handily won the Eastern Conference, got swept in four straight games by the Columbus Blue Jackets (thus crushing my hopes for a 2004 Stanley Cup Final rematch and pretty much the hockey pool hopes of…everyone.)

The significance of this upset was captured on /r/hockey:

The Lightning had the 3rd-best record in NHL history (100+ points), and dominated the league all year. They’ve made at least the Conference Finals (3rd of 4 rounds of playoffs) 3 of the last 4 years.

The Columbus Blue Jackets basically had to win 7 of their final 8 games just to make it into the playoffs, and have never won a single round of the playoffs in the history of their franchise.

And the Lightning didn’t win a single game of the best-of-7-game series.

Basically, nobody saw this coming.

Now, as I settle in to watch another important competition, I’m hoping for another unexpected victory!